that dude Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Me and a girl i go to college with have been "seeing eachother" for a few weeks (not an official relationship). We agreed not to pursue other people until we found out where our relationship was going. Last week she went dancing without me and a random guy kissed her and she slapped him. I was not mad at her for this, since she didn't kiss him back. But... last night on the dance floor she made out with a guy she is going to be living with next year. She told me about it right after it happened and i told her i was through with her. This made her really upset and she cried. Her excuse is that every guy she has been with has only been with her for sex so she wanted to have other options available if I turned out to be another one of those guys. I want to take her back but I don't think I should. Advice? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Since you're not in an 'official relationship', meaning exclusive, no infidelity occurred. To the extent that she disclosed, she did not 'cheat', as cheating requires deception. Is she an appropriate dating partner? Up to you. Her behavior is pretty typical for the age group. Are you 'typical' (hit on a lot of girls) or 'atypical' (date one at a time)? My advice would be to choose someone who aligns with your style. The good news is that this young lady was right out there with you so you could see her style in only a couple of weeks. That's a real positive in my book. You didn't invest yourself into an incompatible dynamic. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Layzie89 Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 She made out with him and her excuse is that she wanted to make sure there was someone else in case you and her didn't work out? That's pathetic. Save yourself the hurt and walk away. Link to post Share on other sites
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