Pornos??

[Hera]

I have a boyfriend that likes to watch pornos. I actually like to watch them too. I think he thinks I am bi or a lebian. I don't know why I like to watch them but I do. But how can I convince him that I am not a lesbian but just enjoy watching naked women?

[Christie]

Girl, what's up with this bi or lesbian thing? We women are also trained to view the female body through a male's perspective, so there's nothing wrong with getting excited over a naked female's body. Worrying will cause more problems than just enjoying.

I have a boyfriend that likes to watch pornos. I actually like to watch them too. I think he thinks I am bi or a lebian. I don't know why I like to watch them but I do. But how can I convince him that I am not a lesbian but just enjoy watching naked women?

[Dawn]

I started out doing that with my biyfriend too. I didn't mind and it never bothered me. Until, he showed me the other things he did. He showed me folders of pics on his pc that he downloads off the internet. I was pissed, isn't the occasional movie or mag enough? Now, I know I can't stop him from looking. It's human nature, but now he spends 2 hours at a time on the internet looking at this. Usually twice a day. And I'm pissed off about it because we live together. He says I'm the one he loves and that I am the person he took the step with of moving in together, but he is obviously happier looking at that. I am at my wits ends trying to deal with this on my own. He doesn't know if he's going to stick around or not because I am too much of a bitch about it. I'd like to hear if there are any other women out there who deal with this and how they handle the mixed emotions they are going through? I keep telling myslef that he's worth it. I keep telling myself that I'm being too insecure. Anyone have any advice?