I've got the worse luck

[EmperorR]

March 2010 I was dumped, pretty sure I was cheated on, anyways my ex was close to my family as she had a young child and my mom etc helped her out. So I moved back home a few months ago to save some money etc., haven't seen my ex for like half a year no contact nothing. Last week my ex contacts me out of the blue how she got a new job near where I live and I'm like that's good.

 

To make a long story short my ex new apartment isn't ready yet, and my family did not ask me for an input and is allowing her to stay here till its ready.

 

It's been like a year and half and this woman just can't get out of my life. This is the luck bestowed upon me and gosh damn I hate it.

[IfiKnewThen]

most people would be like yippeee my ex is near. because they love them and would think there might be an opportunity here. did she dump you? you dump her? that makes all the difference.

 

are you hurting over her? does your family have a clue?

 

just wondering here?

[Sugarkane]

This is a really odd situation. Most exes parents never go this far to help their kids ex. Why are they helping her? Does she have family of her own? Does she have her own parents? Is it just an excuse to see you? Usually parents take their kids side, even if they are in the wrong. I never got to say goodbye to my exes parents. I find this very odd, even if she does have kids.

[IfiKnewThen]

ok just re-read this and the first thing you say is you got dumped and she might have been cheating on you.

 

 

sorry i read this very late last night when i gave u my reply.

 

wow that is kinda crazy. maybe you need to talk to your parents again and fully explain the depth of your pain and how hard and inappropriate this would be to have her under the same roof.

 

are you done with her? i mean over her? if not. let your parents know NOT to do this! be clear on it