mindfcked :P

[Zager]

Hey guys

Last Friday i met this really cool girl at the club. We had loads of fun dancing together, talking and she gave me her number. Literally ripped the phone right out of my hand put her digits in and everything. I texted her the very next day at noon to find out what she was doing, but that didn't last long because apparently i replied to her last message but it didn't go through. Tried calling later that afternoon but no reply.

Now Sunday night i get out of work and text her "are you through texting me" she finally replies back and actually calls me. We talked for at least 4 hours till 3 in the morning. Obviously a fun convo we had that night, plan was that since i was not busy, for us to hang out on Monday (she brought it up). To save the details we were both very excited to see each other again and she really seemed to be into me.

So Monday at noon she calls me up saying we had to postpone the hangout for Tuesday. Her mom called her about her sister having to go to the E.R because she apparently has some kind of disorder. She said she was going to call later in the evening and she didn't. I waited till tuesday evening before calling/texting her but nothing.

Yesterday i did nothing. However something she said before leaving the club suddenly hit me. One of my friends was being an idiot and tried to snatch her from me and she said something along the lines of "Sorry i don't want to be dating 4 guys" (i remember taking it as a joke but now that i think of it that makes me #3)

 

Now i suppose im being played? and i don't know exactly how to deal with it. she's prob the 1st girl i've felt a connection with and i wanted to know her better...what do you guys think?

[Lucky_One]

I don't know if you are being "played". She may be dating a few other guys; a lot of people multi-date if the R hasn't been going on long or if they don't want to be exclusive with each other.

 

I would say that she is playing with you if she has a serious BF, or if she is sleeping with her other guys. I wouldn't much want a multi-screwer.

 

The situation may be legit about her sister, or it could be a lie. You will just have to give it time and get to know her better, or forget about her.