YouNeverKnow86 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Why would a female dumper want time/space apart and no contact if they dumped you even though you did nothing wrong? They thought you were great and everything but something was "off." Just want some perspectives.....
mike588 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Why would a female dumper want time/space apart and no contact if they dumped you even though you did nothing wrong? They thought you were great and everything but something was "off." Just want some perspectives..... They have found someone else and want to be left alone.
Author YouNeverKnow86 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 They have found someone else and want to be left alone. In this case, still says single on FB 3 months later
mike588 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 In this case, still says single on FB 3 months later She "says still single" maybe she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Author YouNeverKnow86 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 She "says still single" maybe she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She blocked me right after we broke up, she said she didn't want to see what girls were posting on my wall. I saw her page yesterday through an old friend, still said single........So I wouldn't have ever known
norajane Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 (edited) Because even people who end relationships have feelings. And she cared about you, so she needs the time and space to detach. Just because a relationship isn't going to work out long term, and you know it's not so you end it, doesn't mean it still isn't a difficult thing to do. It is the RIGHT thing to do, and the BEST thing to do for both of you to move on, which is why she broke up with you, but it does take some time. It is also VERY likely that she does not want to deal with your feelings at this time. You're probably hurt and want her back, and she can't handle hearing that from you all the time (whether you say it out loud or whether you just imply all your sadness through lots of calls or texts), so she does not want any contact. It's called a clean break. Edited October 27, 2011 by norajane
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