Girlfriend like to chat /text

[James1981]

Hey,

 

 

I'm new to this forum, but see there is a lot of good advice / answers here so here goes..

 

Me and my girlfriend have been together about 6 months now, we semi knew each other from the band i play in but really started actually talking online on my yearbook. We hit it off and have been together ever since. I am very much in love with her, and she tells me she feels the same way. She has been in a lot of bad relationships and was hurt many many times, so I am really not the normal guy she would go for. Well about 2 weeks ago I was playing a game on her phone when she got a text from someone i didn't know, with the header can't wait to see you.. So naturally I wanted to know who this was.. Now I know she chatted a good bit with people on various sites before me and I'm fine with all that, but she was making sexual comments to this guy. So I asked her about it and she told me it was nothing and that I had nothing to worry about and that I had her and it was just being flirty online/text. So now Im kinda paranoid about every text/chat she does. Is she talking dirty to all these guys? Am I not giving her enough attention? We have sex at least twice a day and are with each at least half the day sometimes more.. I just don't know if it is still her not wanting to give up the chatting lifestyle she was used to, or if this is something i need to worry about.. I know its eating me up inside though thinking about her talking like that to another guy. any advice would be great thanks!

[PegNosePete]

It is definitely something you need to worry about. She should not be sending sex texts to anyone but you. She is disrespecting you and your entire relationship.

 

How do you think she would react if you were doing this with another girl? I can tell you now, she would kick you out of the door so fast your feet would not touch the floor. So why are you so accepting of her doing it?