HE IS REALLY CONFUSING ME

[laney]

Hi and thank you veru much for your advice and for listening.

 

here is

 

my

 

problem: this summer i worked at this clothing store and there was

 

this

 

guy there

 

and at first i thought he was really cute. my first day there

 

we were

 

closing together and i talked to him a bit but not alone -we

 

were in some group.

 

but then for some reason he barely spoke to me we only

 

spoke if either

 

one of us had some kind of question which i found really

 

weird because

 

he is soooo talkative and will basically speak to anyone who

 

will

 

listen. in fact he was always in front greeting people because

 

he loves

 

to talk. but then finally one day they had me work in the

 

front with

 

him

 

and at first we didn't really talk (i was kinda mad at him for

 

never

 

speaking to me) but then he comes to me and tells me that

 

there is

 

someplace named after my name and then we started

 

talking and that conversation began it all, after that we

 

started

 

talking more.... (sorry this is so long) anyways

 

one

 

day he told me that he is president of some political club and

 

that he

 

was going to the dnc and i didn't believe him so he told me

 

to go to

 

the

 

website and i did , sure enough he was president and it had

 

his email on

 

there and the next day i told him about it and that i had seen

 

his

 

email. (i think i should mention that he has a girlfriend).

 

anyways after we stopped working at gap (because school

 

started, but we don't go to the same highschool) i

 

IM'd him. anyways i'v only spoken to him a couple of times

 

online

 

because his whole family uses the same screen name.

 

anyways we were

 

talking a couple of days ago and the conversation was

 

getting a bit

 

dull, so i asked him (as a joke since we used to joke around

 

at work)

 

if

 

he missed me yet and he was like "not really, sorry" and i

 

thought that

 

he was joking so i was like (sarcastically) "i can't believe

 

you'd say

 

that, if it was me i'd lie and say yes." but before he could

 

respond, i

 

had to go offline because someone had to use the phone so

 

i said bye

 

and

 

left. so now i was thinking about it and what if he was seious

 

and he

 

doesn't want to talk to me anymore, i thought that maybe i

 

should just

 

ignore him for awhile. can you please help me, any advice

 

that you have

 

i will appreciate. Thank you very very much for taking the

 

time to read

 

this, I really appreciate it.

 

p.s. i think i should add that i realize and accept that he has a girlfriend. i'm not hoping to break them up, right ow i just want to be friends with this guy.

 

Thank You,

[janie]

well i doubt that he hates you, and i'd like to think that this guy that you find to be so great would not be mean enough to be serious. but my question is, are you sure that you can handle just being friends with this guy? if so then that's great, it is probably hard to get in touch with him though since his whole family uses the same screen name. i say, ignore him for a little bit because he might already be thinking that you like him and since he has a girlfriend he's probably not looking for that so give him a little time and then im him so it'll be like you have a life of your own and he's just another one of your guy friends, get it? I hope i helped you out, and please don't worry about this guy so much, he should be happy that someone like you is interested.

[billy the kid]

Hey no offence but didn't I read this a couple of weeks ago.. if not sorry, look the guy you describe is shy, thats it, so what do you do??? walk right up to him pull him aside and get his phone #.... call him he will prob. open up since he isn't having to face you.. try it what do you have to lose..

Hi and thank you veru much for your advice and for listening. here is my problem: this summer i worked at this clothing store and there was this guy there and at first i thought he was really cute. my first day there we were closing together and i talked to him a bit but not alone -we were in some group. but then for some reason he barely spoke to me we only spoke if either one of us had some kind of question which i found really weird because he is soooo talkative and will basically speak to anyone who will listen. in fact he was always in front greeting people because he loves to talk. but then finally one day they had me work in the front with him and at first we didn't really talk (i was kinda mad at him for never speaking to me) but then he comes to me and tells me that there is someplace named after my name and then we started talking and that conversation began it all, after that we started talking more.... (sorry this is so long) anyways one day he told me that he is president of some political club and that he was going to the dnc and i didn't believe him so he told me to go to the website and i did , sure enough he was president and it had his email on there and the next day i told him about it and that i had seen his email. (i think i should mention that he has a girlfriend). anyways after we stopped working at gap (because school started, but we don't go to the same highschool) i IM'd him. anyways i'v only spoken to him a couple of times online because his whole family uses the same screen name. anyways we were talking a couple of days ago and the conversation was getting a bit dull, so i asked him (as a joke since we used to joke around at work) if he missed me yet and he was like "not really, sorry" and i thought that he was joking so i was like (sarcastically) "i can't believe you'd say that, if it was me i'd lie and say yes." but before he could respond, i had to go offline because someone had to use the phone so i said bye and left. so now i was thinking about it and what if he was seious and he doesn't want to talk to me anymore, i thought that maybe i should just ignore him for awhile. can you please help me, any advice that you have i will appreciate. Thank you very very much for taking the time to read this, I really appreciate it. p.s. i think i should add that i realize and accept that he has a girlfriend. i'm not hoping to break them up, right ow i just want to be friends with this guy. Thank You,

[Tony T]

First of all, thank you for visiting LoveShack.

 

This post is word for word the same post that was put up two or three weeks ago and which many people, including myself, answered.

 

If you did not feel satisfied at that time, you should have said so.

 

Your post has not changed one bit. The least you could do is give us an update.

 

If things haven't changed at all, you need to give it up babes!!!

[laney]

thanks for your advice, but i never see this guy since we go to different schools so when wouldi pull him aside and also this guy is really talkative and outgoing, in fact he is the farthest thing from shy, so i don't know what to do, thanks for your advice i really appreciate it, and i don't think that you could have read this here because i'm new here. thanks.

[laney]

i'm so sorry, i asked for so much advice that i forgot that i had posted here so i never read any of the advice, i'm so sorry for bothering everyone, i would understand if no one wants to help, thanks for letting me know i appreciate it.

[Paulie]

Tone:

 

what was that you told me a few weeks back about not belittling anyone on this site by saying "this is a joke?"

 

(I'm being sarcastic here, I realize this is different)

[Tony T]

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MUST I REPEAT MYSELF??????