thatcatlady67 Posted October 29, 2011 Share Posted October 29, 2011 I have been dating my co-worker for three months. I never mentioned it to anyone else at work except for one other trustworthy friend. I wanted to keep this quiet, but 2 days ago another, female co-worker figured out what was going on and now everyone knows. She is a huge gossip and knows everything about everyone, where 'all the bodies are buried', etc. She called me that same day and told me a few bits of personal information about this man, some things positive, and a few things not so positive. Not necessarily dealbreakers, but private things I didn't want or need to know right away, and not her place to say. They have worked together for years, I have been there only a few years. I didn't mention any of this to my date, as it is none of my business. I had reservations about getting involved with someone I worked with, for this very reason - no privacy. This was the first time I ever dated a co-worker. Things haven't gotten sexual yet, in spite of the fact that I have not had sex in over a year and kinda miss it. Something told me to take this one very slowly, and for once I listened. I am not sure how to proceed with dating this man, so I plan to do nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
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