LK30 Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Hi all, Not been on the forum for a while, but feeling a bit low and need cheering up! I stupidly looked at my ex gf's brother's FB profile and saw a photo album he'd downloaded to his profile of a day trip to London a few days ago. I had a look through (again stupidly) and my ex was in some of the pics...with a bloke. There were only a couple of shots of them together, and neither of them pics of holding hands, or hugging or indicating they're in a r'ship. What else could it mean. I admit my heart sank a little - even though we've been apart not far off 2 years. It was me that ended it with her, but I'm pretty certain that was her bf and I felt a bit gutted. I'm not crying or going to jump off a cliff over it, but I think the situation feels worse as I'm still alone and not met anyone since. I've not even had a date in the whole of 2011, and no girl has remotely looked at me. A couple of opportunities fizzled out before they started, and I guess I'm feeling low as perhaps I should have stayed with her. Even now, I think of her when I hear another girl with the same name, or see a car that looks identical to hers. I'm sure it's not natural to feel this way, but I know when I wake up in the morning I'll be alone and I'll think of her laying in bed snuggling up to the guy in the pics. I feel (and probably am) sad :-( :-( Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 I don't mean to criticize when you need a hug and all but how could you let yourself entertain thoughts like that about her "snuggling up" with her new bf. That's just something you shouldn't let get that far. When it's over, it's over--especially when you end it. Her new life is not relevant to yours and nut jobs think that way. I advise caution and getting a hold of yourself and asserting yourself otherwise. Link to post Share on other sites
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