Trixxie Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Hi I need advice. My ex and I separated two years and then I left the country and started dating someone else but ended things recently. Now my ex has for the last 2 years been asking me to take him back and to please forgive him for everything and that he loves and adores me and wants to move to England to be with me and my son and for us to be a family (no he isn't the father) But each and every time I turned him away because I was with someone else and trying to make a life for myself. He would contact me every few months, but the last time we got in contact we talked and this time I said I would give him a second chance but he better work hard at courting me So far things have been amazing!!! I couldnt be happier he loves me in a special way. Everything that I ever wanted. Now he recently preposed to me and I was a bit taken aback at first at how fast things have progressed but now I feel whole heartedly that he is the one!!! And I truly want to get married. Now I need to ask has anyone been in the same situation and did it work out alright? Can a man truly change? By realising what he has lost. Link to post Share on other sites
MizHoney2U Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Yes they can awaken one day and realize you were the best thing.... wishing you the best... stay happy!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Why did you break up originally? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Trixxie Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 Thank you MizHoney2U Lauriebell82 - We broke up bcoz I was insecure over his ex. They had been so close that I was afraid I was only second best. They only broke up because she moved to America. So I was paranoid that she would always be the one that got away if you get what I'm saying. He said I was crazy to think that but I couldn't help myself. But now 2 years later he has been fighting to get me back ever since because I am the one that got away Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 (edited) Thank you MizHoney2U Lauriebell82 - We broke up bcoz I was insecure over his ex. They had been so close that I was afraid I was only second best. They only broke up because she moved to America. So I was paranoid that she would always be the one that got away if you get what I'm saying. He said I was crazy to think that but I couldn't help myself. But now 2 years later he has been fighting to get me back ever since because I am the one that got away Well, forget about the ex then and concentrate on the two of you. If she was REALLY "the one" for him they would have found a way to make it work even though she moved to America. He didn't chase her when she moved, but he did chase you. So that should tell you something! Sounds like you both needed to change a little for the better though! Good luck to you. Edited October 31, 2011 by Lauriebell82 Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki82 Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Definitely keep going if you're happy. BUT, you better get over that insecurity of yours! Only if he is truly showing signs of being dishonest do you back off. Comparing yourself to his ex or things like flipping out because he looked at another girl will not make you attractive. Be happy and take it day by day! Link to post Share on other sites
goodthoughts Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Hi I need advice. My ex and I separated two years and then I left the country and started dating someone else but ended things recently. Now my ex has for the last 2 years been asking me to take him back and to please forgive him for everything and that he loves and adores me and wants to move to England to be with me and my son and for us to be a family (no he isn't the father) But each and every time I turned him away because I was with someone else and trying to make a life for myself. He would contact me every few months, but the last time we got in contact we talked and this time I said I would give him a second chance but he better work hard at courting me So far things have been amazing!!! I couldnt be happier he loves me in a special way. Everything that I ever wanted. Now he recently preposed to me and I was a bit taken aback at first at how fast things have progressed but now I feel whole heartedly that he is the one!!! And I truly want to get married. Now I need to ask has anyone been in the same situation and did it work out alright? Can a man truly change? By realising what he has lost. Yes change is the only constant thing to every living thing in life. People change easily but you need to take it real slow and be very careful... so as to be sure your making the right choice and besides you can put him through some test for confirmation of his true love for you or perhaps he's just showing you love now so as to take advantage of you... Link to post Share on other sites
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