Outward affectionate but no passion in bed

[M30USA]

I was talking to an old friend. On the surface she and her husband look like a loving, passionate couple. They are always treating each other well, kissing and holdiing hands. What she shared with me recently is that they have no passion in bed and rarely have sex. This shocked me and made no sense to me. I asked her about if his testosterone was low but I am not sure if this would be why. She is at her wits end with this and is so frustrated with his lack of sex drive and boring (as she calls it) responses that she even admitted she may have an affair. Insight welcome.

 

IMO, your friend has no right telling you that information, since it's not just about her but also her husband, who may or may not want you to know such personal information about him. Online posting is different than knowing things about a real person you see and know in real life. It's for this reason why many men don't share personal information with their wives. Some men know, and rightly so, that anything you tell your wife becomes public information.