fistandantulus Posted November 1, 2011 Share Posted November 1, 2011 Why are people so selfish? Why do they want everything and give nothing in return? Why do they always look for a way to run away, instead of holding on to it? Why do they expect honesty when they are from being honest? Why do they always blame somebody else when there is plenty they did wrong? Why don't they care for others anymore? Why don't they appreciate rare traits like being respectful, helpful, kind, compassionate, honest, fun, secure, sane, confident, smart, etc.? Why don't they ask how they could be a better person, how they could contribute more to their and others' life? Why am I feeling more and more disgusted about what I see, hear and live each and everyday? Is this going to get any better or worse? I am having hard time answering these questions that I have been asking for long, especially after the painful breakup I've been through, details of which are of no relevance here. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted November 1, 2011 Share Posted November 1, 2011 These look like a great start to creating personal boundaries for future relationships All is not lost my young jedi son Link to post Share on other sites
Mallow Posted November 1, 2011 Share Posted November 1, 2011 People are selfish by nature, we tend to our own needs above others. This isn't the case for everyone. We are all guilty of putting ourselves above others at least a few times. As we grow individually, the way we see the world changes. Just because your breakup went sour, it shouldn't impact your view on others. If you keep this mindset, you won't be able to warm your heart to someone deserving. Link to post Share on other sites
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