broke NC

[whenitsmyturn]

Hi all,

so here I am again, now Im coping with the break up...I broke nc with my ex...well he called me at work, and then he asked for me to call him and I did...we spoked, and he said that he misses me and and that he still loves me, I am so upset because when he tells me that I feel like we still have a chance, but in reality I know we don't, he wants to see me, but I told him I don't want to see him, and that he is making it hard for me, he said to me that regardless, we will always be friends, so I told him, that how are we going to move on if he doesn't let me go, and he's answer was the last thing on my mind right now is moving on...and then we were suppose to go to a family dinner for his brothers birthday, well he still went...and everyone was asking for me...and when I asked him what did he say, he told me he told them I had another engagement, I don't understand why he just didn't tell them that we are broken up.....I still have him blocked on my phone, so he can't really call me, unless he calls me at work, or from his fax machine...well I just needed to vent....Im trying to move on...but he is just not letting me...

[Rorschach64]

So let me see if I read this right, he said he loves you and cares about you and wants to meet you and talk to you about something?

 

If that is a yes, did you actually listen to what he had to say?

[whenitsmyturn]

no I haven't seen him yet, he has been sick, so he told me when he gets better he will contact me, so I haven't heard what he has to tell me....

[Rorschach64]

Well I think you should hear what he has to say, yes it is a gamble as it might set you back but I know I would take that risk it might be something positive. You never know but stay strong and confident, let him talk, don't reveal anything unless you don't have to that includes emotions.