InLoveOutofLove Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 oops, well i dated my ex about three years ago and was young . we dated for about two years and everything was perfect, we were so in love, but i was young and thought i wanted to experience life more. Well shortly after we split i met this guy whom i then started dating we were together for three years, i broke things off with him about a week ago, i love him and all, but needed to be alone again (in all actuality it was because i had started chatting with my ex). I did this because i haven't been able to stop thinking about my boyfriend before him and found out that he was now single . we have been chatting, we went out for drinks last week and went to a spa this week. well this week we got to kissing and stuff. things would have gone farther if i didn't stop. he asked me why i had gotten weird on him and i explained to him that there are to many feelings involved for me to just be able to sleep with him. I love this guy, I made the biggest mistake in my life when i broke up with him and i am really afraid to reveal more feelings for him and end up getting hurt. So anyway when i explained this to him he simply said, I have issues that I need to resolve and he doesn't want to get in the way of that. This really threw me off because he is not the "jerk type" he is very sensitive and super sweet. But now I am left not knowing what the heck to do. I don't know if he dismissed my feeling because he has none for me or what? I lost him once and I will do anything to get him back. Please tell me someone has an ideas?? Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 I lost him once and I will do anything to get him back. Boy has the tables turned. Do as he did when you broke up...hold on to that false hope. Love him, when he does not feel the same way as you. Call him and bug him as he did to you. Let him be and see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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