Rorschach64 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 About a month ago my ex fiancee requested an address to ship my stuff back to even though she was given one 4 months ago and nothing as of yet but tonight I see her sitting on Yahoo IM using my laptop not saying a single word to me. It is just so annoying how she is so callous and uncaring, maybe I need my damn laptop and dog tags back, she ever consider that? Oh wait no she doesn't, she could care less about me till she has burnt through her GIGs, all I can think in my head is the f word over and over then rushing anger...but I won't break NC, not after 5 months....no I won't it isn't worth it... End of rant. Link to post Share on other sites
AlisaMarie Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 About a month ago my ex fiancee requested an address to ship my stuff back to even though she was given one 4 months ago and nothing as of yet but tonight I see her sitting on Yahoo IM using my laptop not saying a single word to me. It is just so annoying how she is so callous and uncaring, maybe I need my damn laptop and dog tags back, she ever consider that? Oh wait no she doesn't, she could care less about me till she has burnt through her GIGs, all I can think in my head is the f word over and over then rushing anger...but I won't break NC, not after 5 months....no I won't it isn't worth it... End of rant. We all need to rant sometimes. I can't sleep because I have so much going through my head about my ex. One week ago tonight he was breaking up with me and inviting his fling over. I can't even think about it anymore. You def deserve your stuff back though but at this point, you should probably call it a wash. Let her have the laptop- but your dog tags... I don't know those mean something. Send a friend or something to get them off of her and delete her from IM! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rorschach64 Posted November 2, 2011 Author Share Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) She is currently living in Singapore and I am in Pennsylvania so asking a friend is a no go :| I don't know if it is a weird military thing but we are very clingy clingy about the equipment we have, my brother clings to this assault pack he has because he went through Afghanistan with it. I know your pains though, I went through the same thing initally, hell I am probably about to go through it again for the billionth time I also know the pain of someone else quickly entering the picture after you were tossed aside, I know that was the real reason why I was discarded on top of GIGs as I stated. But I swear to god I will not freak out at her, curse her out, yell at her, because I know I am better than that....deep breath in....and out... Edited November 2, 2011 by Rorschach64 Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Hey that really sucks I hate how they do these things. They end it, yet they don't want to give the stuff back! Doesn't make sense to me. I hope you get your stuff back soon. Link to post Share on other sites
AlisaMarie Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I understand the attachments... you worked for them and they belong to you... it's the point. Sometimes I think exes hold on to things of ours to "buy time" to decide what they want. My ex wouldn't give me back property of mine for a couple weeks (and we live very close.) When he did he def used it for a tool to communicate. When we broke up this time- I made sure he had everything. The little things I found here and there got tossed. I don't think he has anything of my except maybe a toothbrush at his place. I can't find a favorite pair of jeans and I know they are there... but oh well. Now a laptop and your dogtags? I understand that's worth a little fight. Could you at least have someone else call her? Link to post Share on other sites
Sugarkane Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I find the holding of possessions still weird. I never got some of my stuff back. My ex hated my drinks, yet he still kept them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rorschach64 Posted November 2, 2011 Author Share Posted November 2, 2011 It is weird, the whole break up was weird and I had to scour LS and talk to homebrew and wilsonx to figure out what the hell happened based on their experience. I guess anything is possible, but seems most times than not ex's hold on to stuff just because they don't care enough to send stuff. If she was holding on to my stuff to keep lines open for communication, I find it very strange she hasn't said anything to me even after I wrote her a nice letter about 2 months ago. The dog tags, only thing I can speak on this was before I pulled my head out of my butt and realised I didn't cheat but she was the one that was cheating, she asked me if I was going to give my dog tags to a new girl and she understood what my tags meant to me and why she asked for them to begin with. Link to post Share on other sites
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