sunflower11 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Ok sooo this may be a little off topic but...I've known for a while my parents were not getting along and I guess my dad told my mom last night he is just waiting on some money he hopes to get to move to another country and be gone for good. It made me sad that I didn't have my ex to talk to..I didn't have my best friend and this is hard for me even though like I said I knew there were problems..they just fell out of love no cheating no nothing...sighhh it's soo hard to not count on the one person that can make you feel better Link to post Share on other sites
skyle Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 It might not help as much, but you know you can talk to anyone here whenever. I'll be all ears for you x Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Ok sooo this may be a little off topic but...I've known for a while my parents were not getting along and I guess my dad told my mom last night he is just waiting on some money he hopes to get to move to another country and be gone for good. It made me sad that I didn't have my ex to talk to..I didn't have my best friend and this is hard for me even though like I said I knew there were problems..they just fell out of love no cheating no nothing...sighhh it's soo hard to not count on the one person that can make you feel better I'm sorry you're going through this. I know it's difficult at any age when your parents divorce. Hopefully, you can maintain a strong relationship with your mother and keep in touch with your father long distance. I know it's especially hard when you don't have someone close to reach out to to comfort you. Stay strong, and be there for your mother. She'll need you to help her through this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sunflower11 Posted November 3, 2011 Author Share Posted November 3, 2011 Thank you both yes it is hard. My ex knew my parents had problems and he was also there for me when I was feeling down about it. I know they are better off apart you know..I'm not a child anymore I am 23 and I understand a thing or two about marriage not working out sometimes. I just wish he was still around to make me feel better but only thinking of him right him hurts..he has caused too much pain and there is noo way I'm going to turn to him for this. Link to post Share on other sites
Thieves Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Hey, Sunflower. I know how you feel, as my parents were divorced a long time ago and I was equally devastated. Only, the reason I was truly devastated was that no one even bothered to tell me that they were separated. Meaning I was basically kept in the dark about it. I was told that my father would be returning back (to our state where my family moved) when he finished up some "work" where he was... but of course, that never happened. I was fairly young too, so it took a little while until I realized it. But anyway, I'm really sorry for what you're going through. I'm glad you're being strong though and not automatically turning to your ex. Sometimes we just have to tough it out, but I do believe eventually we'll be a little stronger after all is said and done. Link to post Share on other sites
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