Talon86 Posted May 20, 2004 Posted May 20, 2004 I like this girl but she has a boyfriend. We have went out on 3 date. She told me he was just a friend but later i found out he was her b/f. Do u think she wants to get to know me better to see if she wants to continue seeing this other boy or do you think she is trying to make him jealous? Should i keep going out with her?
Becks84 Posted May 20, 2004 Posted May 20, 2004 I definitley think she is trying to get to know you better so she can decide which of you she wants to be with. I can see where she's coming from, but it's not right. SHe will keep dragging you along for as long as you let her. If you're okay with it, then go along with it and hopefully for your sake it ends up in your favor! But I have to wonder, does her bf know about you? If not, and if she is decieving him, keep in mind she may do the same to you in the future. Best wishes!
Teddi Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Talon....from previous experience......im telling you to leave it. it sounds exactly the situation i was on and i got the boot....not because she liked me less...but because of the connection she had with the other guy...NEVER go after an girl with a b/f....i know you didnt initially know...but now that you do leave it as becks said...she WILL drag you along as i was......best left alone buddy...trust me .......plenty more fish.....
average guy Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 But consider his, would you want a gf who shops around for another bf while she has one. If you "win" this contest, how do you know she won't start checking out another guy while she is your gf?
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