Gentlegirl Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Thank you to those who supported me very kindly. I had nowhere else to go. I think without LS I could have seriously been tempted to do suicide. I understand there are those who make a career of being on LS's many forums. They, however, have not walked in anybody's shoes and offer advice on many topics. One wonders what kind of real life they lead? Then there are the angry knockers... oh well it is a public forum. We never actually know how fragile that poster in distress might be. It's always better to err on the side of kindness and good advice. It is very easy to knock somebody or make the judgement that they have a bad character without the life experience and real knowledge of the person. Be kind to each other. It costs nothing. I will be forever grateful to those on LS who had the grace to be kind to me and try to understand. I won't be back as I have put the A and xMM behind me. I understand what happened to me and have had counselling for post traumatic stress after what happened in the last few years. Looking forward to a cruise of 16 nights over Christmas, New Year. I will raise a glass of wine to all the lovely people here... never forget you. Gentlegirl Link to post Share on other sites
skywriter Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Oh Wow, a cruise! That's an awesome way to spend the Holidays! Be safe and don't have to tell you to have fun! My A is over too , but I've kinda gotten into the habit of surfing various subjects on LS. You'll be missed Gentlegirl. Cheers to you! Link to post Share on other sites
East7 Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Oh GG I am so suprised Your posts are full of tolerance and patience. Personally I don't have much reasons either to stay on LS, my A is over big time but I like to help "new" OM with my experience or simply enjoy to share opinions. We all think that our MW is special but most of the time they are so much alike. Anyway, good luck with everything. We will miss you. Link to post Share on other sites
spice4life Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Have an AWESOME time on your cruise!!! You deserve it. Don't worry about the posters who make blanket statements about the character of others - I get the sense that they have their own crosses to bear in their own life. Your kind gentle inspiring words will be sincerely missed here at LS! Best wishes to you sweetie...you're awesome! Don't ever forget it. Link to post Share on other sites
SunsetRed Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Thank you for the kindness and grace you've shown me. Best wishes! I'd be off this forum as well if I hadnt allowed myself to get sucked into MM a 2nd time. Well, I'm moving on in body...making career and social changes. Soon my mind/spirit will catch up with my body and I'll be healed! Take care and enjoy your cruise! Link to post Share on other sites
FightClub Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Gentlegirl, I know things haven't been easy but the good thing is you now have a perspective that some may never see or in some cases want to see but it is your reality and life, you determine the destiny you want for yourself with a little bit of fate somewhere in-between. Good luck on your journey, don't give up on yourself and keep striving for the best in yourself, no matter what number goes beside your age. Don't forget to smile, sometimes we take life to seriously to really see that things get better in time, the scars are visible but in time they do fade and you can create new memories, memories that can save your life. Best of luck to you my dear! -FC Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Be kind to each other. It costs nothing. I can go along with that, but you have to realize, there was someone who wasn't treated kind as a result of your situation. But good luck to you Link to post Share on other sites
DepressedinDenver Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Be kind to each other. It costs nothing. Gentlegirl Its easier said then done. Kinda like when people have affairs and hurt the 3rd or 4th person. They sure are not being kind so I find it funny when people get mad at harsh words when they are being way harsher with actions. Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Breeze Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Even after a lovely, gracious goodbye a couple of extra digs just had to be made. Best to you GG. I hope you have a wonderful cruise and holiday season. Link to post Share on other sites
nonamefornow Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 BTW Gentle Girl, take care and thanks for the advice. I wish you a great future with lots of happiness xx Link to post Share on other sites
Spark1111 Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 You sound like a lovely kind person and I wish all good things for you in your future. You deserve them! Have a wonderful time. Link to post Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Best of luck to you! Link to post Share on other sites
AHardDaysNight Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Best of luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
SidLyon Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Best wishes GG. I'm thinking of leaving LS too. Three years post d-day for me and maybe I need to move on with my life without relying on LS. I've learned a lot though, I must say. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Awww I'll miss you GG but best of luck to you! I'm happy for you and I hope you enjoy your trip Link to post Share on other sites
findingnemo Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Always kind and thoughtful and yet speaking truthfully about consequences. Thank you, GG. Enjoy your cruise and enjoy life. We'll miss you. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby_shoes Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Bye GG, have a fabulous cruise! xxx Link to post Share on other sites
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