Paradise Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 I have a lover who I met 9 months ago. She is not pretty or sexy, but she is a great person and she loves me deeply. I met another girl 3 months ago and I tried to break up with my former girlfriend. We both were sad that we had to end our relationship. She told me that she wanted to at least remain friends and I allowed at least that. However, our relationship never ended and we are still sleeping together whenever we have a chance. She knows about my new girlfriend and she doesn’t mind being my other girlfriend. I spend most of my time with my new girlfriend and she doesn't know that I'm seeing or anything about my former girlfriend. My new girlfriend is prettier than my former, but not as intellectual. She also love me dearly and once told me that she will never share me with another girl. Personally, I don’t want to have a close relationship, because, I was divorced two years ago and I'm not ready to taken on a full blown marriage type relationship. Having two good friends and sex is great, but I feel like it’s not right to have two girlfriends. Should I continue with my relationship with two women? Link to post Share on other sites
shellgranado Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 YOUR DOING BOTH OF THEM WRONG HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THE SAYING BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP YOUR WRONG BY LEAVING THE FIRST GIRL BECAUSE SOMEONE ELES WAS PRETTER . DROP THE NEW GIRL ITS ONLY RIGHT NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO SHARE THERE PARTNER WITH ANYONE ELESE BUT IF ITS OK WITH THE FIRST GIRL THAT YOUR SEEING SOMEONE ELESE TO THEN ITS ONLY FAIR THE SECOUND GIRL KNOWS TO Link to post Share on other sites
Pyrannaste Posted May 22, 2004 Share Posted May 22, 2004 It could be okay if they BOTH knew about it and were okay with it. What you are doing is *cheating* on your girlfriend. If you don't want to have a close relationship and you want to enjoy the previlege of sleeping with different women, what you SHOULD do is informing the person you are dating *before you sleep with her or get emotionally close with her*, and not act like a vermin like you are doing now. Do whatever you like with your love life but be upfront with people the next time......and break up with your current girlfriend, she does not deserve to be with a disgusting low form of life like you. Link to post Share on other sites
Love2share Posted May 22, 2004 Share Posted May 22, 2004 Definately not. I have a thread where I am in the "new girlfriends" position. Your thread makes me wonder if this is what happened to my boyfriend. Please, leave one of the girls alone, completely. Or tell your new girl about the old girl and give her a chance to decide if she is willing to go along with it. This early in the relationship...she will respect you for being honest with her. She may be angry with you. But trust me, it's nothing compare to the way she will feel if you wait until the two of you get closer and start planning a future together. It's very selfish of you to string them both along. I'm sure your're a great person and mean no harm. But really, the pain that you will cause by being dishonest is crucial, even in a harmless situation. Link to post Share on other sites
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