TekKaman_HaLo Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 Hey guys, I've Been dating this girl for about 8 months now and she's been acting very immature lately. We've not gotten the chance to go out much or see each other for the past month and its been really strainful on our relationship. We've had fights almost weekly now over the stupidest things and she wont talk to me for a few days till she cools off. The biggest fight we had was at the beginning of the month where she got mad at me because I needed to study for my engineering finals instead of helping her move ( when I offered to help for a few hours a day) and she said I wasn't being supportive, the next fight was because her friend kept talking about guys she could have hooked up with right in front of me and my gf said it was "so tacky" of me to say her friend was pissing me off.When we talk its for very short periods of time where she will say something that makes the rest of the conversation akward for the rest of the duration of it, and I don't really get the oppurtunity to discuss what I'm thinking or even see her and talk about it in person. Just this last tuesday I blew up on her for not seeing her in almost 3 weeks. She got really mad at what I was saying said she didnt want to talk anymore and hung up. I didnt hear from her for about a day. I tried to send her some flowers as a good gesture and didnt hear from her, so I call and see if she even got them and she returns my call about 3 hours later. She wasn't mad but she gave me a big speech about how she thought we were really different, she thought I wanted a serious girlfriend and didnt know if she could be that, and how if she saw me too much she would get bored of me and thats why she didnt have any close friends. I've been really understanding that she has a job and is in school too, but shes been out for the summer for teaching and college, and I'm still seeing very little of her. I have talked to my friends about her and they think shes being very selfish and immature. I think shes actually mad right now because she hasnt returned my calls. I dont know what to do.......the way things are right now make me think there won't be a tomorrow, but I don't want to let it all go because I've fallen pretty hard for her and the good 7 months out weigh the bad 1 month were having. Anyone have any suggestions what I can do to help improve the situation? Or how I should gain control of the situation? If it helps, Im 20, shes 22, Leo/Aquarius , please give me some input, thanks Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 We did! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?postid=230351#post230351 Link to post Share on other sites
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