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[praslin]

Right now i am studying abroad and she was staying at my parents place. But she recently moved out to her mums place and some guy who she says is a good friend she just met came to help her but my brother was there and saw that the guy did not come out of the car. My brother thinks his hiding and does not want to show his face But my girlfriend told me said his just a friend and i know my mum normal chooses which girls because she says girls from my country are bad and have many boyfriends. i know my girlfriend's ex had many women and gave her problems and use to trick her but is this a reason to still forgive my girlfriend because i always think she a good person its just her ex maybe forced her into doing it. when she chat to me on messenger she told me she met someone and then saying about her feelings for me are not the same and i started to get angry and saying bad words to her but she said she was meaning she met a good friend.Was she meaning she me another guy or she is telling the truth and sayins she met a friend? I know the guy knows i am abroad and he is single, but my girlfriend says he is not trying to get her he is just being a good friend I do get paranoid, jealous and possesive at times and i feel guilty also because always think my jealousy has caused her to cheat on me before with her ex. I am a good guy and i have never cheated on her and i never had the intention of cheating on her. She tells me i have given her all the love a women deserves and she knows i love her to death but she says because of long distance her love is not like before. but i am going to see her in may next year. She says shes thinking about it if to stay or to leave me but she does not promise any thing. I never expected for her to cheat on me before or say these things now. I always think because shes so gentle and sweet and does not smoke that she is good girl. But everyone says quiet people u dont know their true nature. I always thought because she had only 1 boyfriend before me then she is a good person and she made a mistake wen she cheated on me before and i stayed with her. But after she cheated on me i was so hurt and could not sleep at night and no one knows she cheated on me not even my parents and some how i have gone throught the phase of being hurt but my love for her returned even stronger then before because people normally say when u forgive someone the love between the 2 people becomes stronger. She always said she will stay with my alway and forever. But if she does truly love me then she will wait for me no matter what even if i am abroad studying? I will wait for her and even staying abroad i have not cheated on her. Am i being too good or being dumb. PLEASE PROFESSOR X GIVE ADVISE

Edited November 5, 2011 by praslin