A Surveillance Journal

[Evolutions]

Entry #1 - Remember, Remember the 5th of November

 

Today, November 5th, 2011. First entry of journal detailing electronic surveillance of my wife. My suspicions of her infidelity have been growing over the past months; beginning in August when she told me of her reconnection to old flames: Michael and Chris. We were sitting on the patio of the house we purchased earlier this year, and she said she'd sent off emails to them (and a few other people) trying to revive old friendships, which she feels she is missing. I have always been a little weary of her communication with these two men due to her cheating on her first husband with them. This news set off a warning flag. I told her I was concerned about this, and I asked her if there was any chance she was doing this because there was something wrong with our relationship. She reassured me that there was not, and I let it go.

 

Except I never let it go, and she doesn't know that I know all about Michael now. I've always known that Michael has tried to maintain some contact, but over the 3 years we've been married she's ignored him or not indulged his "feeler" emails beyond a courtesy reply. This changed in January, 2010 when she sent him a Facebook message that consisted of basically: "I didn't want to lose complete touch with you, but you know we can't meet or talk on the phone without there being problems--my fault, not yours. How is your family? I'm married again." He replied back saying that he understood, and six months later he sent out another "feeler" message to which she replied to in a much longer fashion (but still very surface). Then nothing for another year until May, 2011 when he asked her how it was going. She replied back, but he didn't respond until a couple of months later saying that he hated Facebook and they should take this to email instead. They sent a handful of emails back and forth over the summer, but in mid-August she sent him an email that started with: "I had a dream about you last night, and since then I haven't been able to stop thinking about you." The email continued very innocently, telling him about an event we had gone to and other things going on in her life. He responded, and the last reply back to him concluded with "I care for you so much. You're one of my oldest friends, and I've always had very intense feelings for you, and even in the stretches of time that we didn't talk, I thought of you a lot (which one of the reasons I felt like I couldn't talk to you). It means a lot to me to have you in my life, as much as it may be right now." One day later she started texting him.

 

I have access to her phone usage as well. Over the past two and a half months they've sent back and forth around 250 text messages, but I didn't know that until I happened to look at the phone records right before she was going out of town this week. I noticed that she had talked to him for almost an hour on the phone on Halloween after I'd gone to sleep. As a potentially-related aside, she kept saying how horny she's been lately. Then she went out of town on the 1st, and they talked again for an hour Wednesday morning, the 2nd. On the night of the 3rd, I interrupted their texting when I called, and we spoke for about thirty minutes about the trip. She concluded by saying she was tired and needed to get to sleep. Immediately after hanging up, she sends him a text. They text back-and-forth for a few minutes, and they haven't had communication with each other again. Again yet, I'll assume. Also during this trip she has been texting Chris, but I'm still unsure of the nature of their renewed friendship; although I can guess. After she got home, I checked her phone: only innocent text messages between her mother and her girlfriends.

 

Yesterday I made a decision. I would know everything that there was to know about this situation. I went down to the store and traded up her old cell with a new iPhone while she was driving home from the conference. I was hoping to get a derelict text during the time when her old phone was deactivated and the new one was in my possession. Unfortunately, I did not. I gave her the phone when she returned home, and she was very happy about it. I noticed that she quickly put a keylock on it while she was playing with it. While she was doing that, I slipped her laptop out of her bag and installed a keylogging program. So now I have access to her email and Facebook. The only other entry of note was a Google search she performed for "turning off the ringer on the iPhone." Telling. I also placed an application called "Locate iPhone" whereby I can monitor the GPS coordinates of her phone from online.

 

I now have her location at all times, the content of any emails or Facebook messages, and when she uses the phone to talk or text. However, I'm still missing the actual content of these mobile conversations, and this is vital to me concluding her infidelity without a doubt. My next course of action will be to jailbreak the new phone and install a spying program on it. This will give me access to the content of the text and voice calls, but I will have to wait until iOS5 compatible versions are released. I may also install a camera at the entryway of the house to ensure she isn't having company while I'm at work.

 

My goal in writing this journal is to create a documented record of my actions that I may use once I find concrete evidence. My motive for posting this is a hope that it may help others in similar situations.

[frozensprouts]

Entry #1 - Remember, Remember the 5th of November

 

Today, November 5th, 2011. First entry of journal detailing electronic surveillance of my wife. My suspicions of her infidelity have been growing over the past months; beginning in August when she told me of her reconnection to old flames: Michael and Chris. We were sitting on the patio of the house we purchased earlier this year, and she said she'd sent off emails to them (and a few other people) trying to revive old friendships, which she feels she is missing. I have always been a little weary of her communication with these two men due to her cheating on her first husband with them. This news set off a warning flag. I told her I was concerned about this, and I asked her if there was any chance she was doing this because there was something wrong with our relationship. She reassured me that there was not, and I let it go.

 

Except I never let it go, and she doesn't know that I know all about Michael now. I've always known that Michael has tried to maintain some contact, but over the 3 years we've been married she's ignored him or not indulged his "feeler" emails beyond a courtesy reply. This changed in January, 2010 when she sent him a Facebook message that consisted of basically: "I didn't want to lose complete touch with you, but you know we can't meet or talk on the phone without there being problems--my fault, not yours. How is your family? I'm married again." He replied back saying that he understood, and six months later he sent out another "feeler" message to which she replied to in a much longer fashion (but still very surface). Then nothing for another year until May, 2011 when he asked her how it was going. She replied back, but he didn't respond until a couple of months later saying that he hated Facebook and they should take this to email instead. They sent a handful of emails back and forth over the summer, but in mid-August she sent him an email that started with: "I had a dream about you last night, and since then I haven't been able to stop thinking about you." The email continued very innocently, telling him about an event we had gone to and other things going on in her life. He responded, and the last reply back to him concluded with "I care for you so much. You're one of my oldest friends, and I've always had very intense feelings for you, and even in the stretches of time that we didn't talk, I thought of you a lot (which one of the reasons I felt like I couldn't talk to you). It means a lot to me to have you in my life, as much as it may be right now." One day later she started texting him.

 

I have access to her phone usage as well. Over the past two and a half months they've sent back and forth around 250 text messages, but I didn't know that until I happened to look at the phone records right before she was going out of town this week. I noticed that she had talked to him for almost an hour on the phone on Halloween after I'd gone to sleep. As a potentially-related aside, she kept saying how horny she's been lately. Then she went out of town on the 1st, and they talked again for an hour Wednesday morning, the 2nd. On the night of the 3rd, I interrupted their texting when I called, and we spoke for about thirty minutes about the trip. She concluded by saying she was tired and needed to get to sleep. Immediately after hanging up, she sends him a text. They text back-and-forth for a few minutes, and they haven't had communication with each other again. Again yet, I'll assume. Also during this trip she has been texting Chris, but I'm still unsure of the nature of their renewed friendship; although I can guess. After she got home, I checked her phone: only innocent text messages between her mother and her girlfriends.

 

Yesterday I made a decision. I would know everything that there was to know about this situation. I went down to the store and traded up her old cell with a new iPhone while she was driving home from the conference. I was hoping to get a derelict text during the time when her old phone was deactivated and the new one was in my possession. Unfortunately, I did not. I gave her the phone when she returned home, and she was very happy about it. I noticed that she quickly put a keylock on it while she was playing with it. While she was doing that, I slipped her laptop out of her bag and installed a keylogging program. So now I have access to her email and Facebook. The only other entry of note was a Google search she performed for "turning off the ringer on the iPhone." Telling. I also placed an application called "Locate iPhone" whereby I can monitor the GPS coordinates of her phone from online.

 

I now have her location at all times, the content of any emails or Facebook messages, and when she uses the phone to talk or text. However, I'm still missing the actual content of these mobile conversations, and this is vital to me concluding her infidelity without a doubt. My next course of action will be to jailbreak the new phone and install a spying program on it. This will give me access to the content of the text and voice calls, but I will have to wait until iOS5 compatible versions are released. I may also install a camera at the entryway of the house to ensure she isn't having company while I'm at work.

 

My goal in writing this journal is to create a documented record of my actions that I may use once I find concrete evidence. My motive for posting this is a hope that it may help others in similar situations.

 

 

is trhis real, because it reads like bad episode of some over dramatized crime show on the FOX network.

 

if it is real... divorce your wife, as you don't trust her at all, never did, and probably never will. why did you even marry her in the first place.

 

( and isn't some of this "electronic stuff" that you are doing illegal )?

 

is this one of thos ethread written by a 'troll' that i have been haering so mcuh about:laugh:

[Kidd]

So, you know that she's having an emotional affair and you're monitoring instead of intervening because...?

[Art_Critic]

My goal in writing this journal is to create a documented record of my actions that I may use once I find concrete evidence.

 

She can also use your documented journal as well...against you...

Be careful what you post on the internet..

Put it on paper.. not on a web forum...

 

and honestly... just go get an attorney and divorce her.. I had trouble reading all that ... all the while I thinking .. geez.. just divorce her..

[In Like Flynn]

Don't sit back and eat popcorn watching your wife turn a EA to a PA!!! You have enough now to at least ask about them as well as why she locks her phone!!! Nip it in the butt now!!

[2011aug]

iphone, eh? You can retrieve text messages from the backup. Deleted ones too?

 

Do a backup sync of her iphone via itunes.

 

In the MobileSync/Backup folder

 

The text messages are synced to this file: 3d0d7e5fb2ce288813306e4d4636395e047a3d28

 

The contacts stored on phone are in: 31bb7ba8914766d4ba40d6dfb6113c8b614be442

 

You can do a global search for these files.

 

Copy to your desktop/USB/Memory stick. Download TextPad, install, and then open the backup files in TextPad.

 

Difficult to read, keep scrolling and it should be all there.

 

 

Or, do a google search on how to read these files.

[2long]

I'm with Kidd on this one.

 

The time 2 have intervened in this EA was when the communication was just starting 2 become inappropriate. Now, you appear 2 be more in love with the drama than your wife.

 

Marry the next keylogger you find, and let your wife go.

 

-ol' 2long