Author mr_sexxxy Posted November 6, 2011 Author Share Posted November 6, 2011 (edited) Yes, these are stunning looking girls with many guys chasing them. I should add these girls are also highly intelligent, attending the best colleges, and/or successful professional girls in addition, but still lack confidence to talk to me. Edited November 6, 2011 by mr_sexxxy Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Yes, these are stunning looking girls with many guys chasing them. I should add these girls are also highly intelligent, attending the best colleges, and/or successful professional girls in addition, but still lack confidence to talk to me. Who are you Brad Pitt? Come on. I'm sure you're attractive, but if these women are "stunning" as you say then they should have no problem talking to you. Period. Where's your picture? I'm waiting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr_sexxxy Posted November 6, 2011 Author Share Posted November 6, 2011 I will NEVER post a picture here. Word has gotten back to people I've posted about before due to pictures resulting in great embarrassment and awkwardness. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 I will NEVER post a picture here. Word has gotten back to people I've posted about before due to pictures resulting in great embarrassment and awkwardness. Ok.....I'm sure my laptop would burst into flames because you are just so smokin' hot, right? I don't need a pic then, thanks;) Link to post Share on other sites
PlumPrincess Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 I'm not that hot and I don't have superhot guys approach, but even when a superhot guy started talking to me, I would still be able to rely on my basic social skills and hold up a conversation with you. I really can't image anybody being so hot that I felt all so excited that I would start avoiding that person. Since I'm also more on the average side of self-confidence, I think most women would feel the same way. I'm sorry, you really can't be that hot and intimidating. There's something else about you that is driving the women away. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 I'm not that hot and I don't have superhot guys approach, but even when a superhot guy started talking to me, I would still be able to rely on my basic social skills and hold up a conversation with you. I really can't image anybody being so hot that I felt all so excited that I would start avoiding that person. Since I'm also more on the average side of self-confidence, I think most women would feel the same way. I'm sorry, you really can't be that hot and intimidating. There's something else about you that is driving the women away. I'm an attractive girl and I sometimes find super hot guys hard to talk to. I mean I can have a conversation with them, but I'm nervous and I blush a lot. The more I talk to them, the easier it gets though. So it seems like these girls should want to talk to you even if it's a bit uncomfortable at first. I agree with PlumPrincess that there is something else that makes these girls shy away from you. Link to post Share on other sites
PlumPrincess Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 I'm an attractive girl and I sometimes find super hot guys hard to talk to. I mean I can have a conversation with them, but I'm nervous and I blush a lot. The more I talk to them, the easier it gets though. So it seems like these girls should want to talk to you even if it's a bit uncomfortable at first. I agree with PlumPrincess that there is something else that makes these girls shy away from you. Sure, I might be nervous and all, but I wouldn't run away. And my assumption would be, if he is the one who started the conversation, then I'm in! Ok, sort of, it means, he wouldn't mind a conversation with me which is a relaxing thought. I would be more nervous when approaching a guy I considered good-looking. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Sure, I might be nervous and all, but I wouldn't run away. And my assumption would be, if he is the one who started the conversation, then I'm in! Ok, sort of, it means, he wouldn't mind a conversation with me which is a relaxing thought. I would be more nervous when approaching a guy I considered good-looking. Well if he gets your heart racing that's a good thing!! Yes it might be annoying to blush and have sweaty palms, but hell if he's hot and he's talking to me then SWEET!! And no matter how hot the guy is, you will eventually relax and the blushing and nervousness will subside. I have a feeling Mr. Sexxxy pants has got something else going on that these girls just don't dig. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 OMG! the sensitive concept explained. I know guys that got dumped because women said they wanted a sensitive man. I got older and realized that the concept wasn't articulated well to the man so essentially be sensitive man essentially became be a sensitive man so these guy made a weird personality change I know eh? All these poor guys walking around emasculating themselves trying to get a girlfriend and getting themselves friendzoned! Historically we have needed men to be responsive to us so that they could protect us and our children at a moment's notice. Those basic instincts are still in play today and IMHO the cause of the failure of many relationships. The guy starts blocking her emotional input when it overwhelms him, she responds by trying to activate his sensitivity even more by becoming more emotional. He puts up more walls to the point where she becomes 100% convinced that he won't respond to her when she would need, thus he becomes a liability. Relationship over! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 I am not a particularly attractive woman but I don't find myself intimidated by attractive guys. I think it is because I don't have much to fear about the impression I will make with them because we wouldn't end up in a relationship together. I am pretty realistic. Not everyone can be wildly beautiful and I have other things to offer. Link to post Share on other sites
snowflakes88 Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Interesting. I find that most truly "hot" guys are off the market - regardless of how otherwise broke, unintelligent, douchey, and/or boring they are. I do, however, encounter more than my share of single guys who aren't nearly as hot as they think they are. Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Granted I'm speaking as unattractive female, but from my own experiences and what I've heard from other girls, it's not that they're "afraid" of hot guys... They just don't want to bother with the arrogance and ego that comes along with a 'hot' guy. Example: I was at a party last night. There was a particular gentleman who I thought was pretty attractive... Granted, he was attractive in the "nerd" way I prefer, but in that crowd, he was probably the second or third most attractive guy in the room. However, he made several comments throughout the night that exposed how arrogant and self-involved he was... for instance, commenting that he only dated women who were "incredibly gorgeous and amazingly intelligent" and added that he also preferred girls who were "broken" in some way so they wouldn't think they were better than him. Pretty much all of us women in the party exchanged looks and avoided him from there on out. From his perspective, he might have walked away thinking he "intimidated" us. But it was really just that we thought he was an arrogant tool. Lastly the guys YOU see as being beneath you in terms of looks is not an objective assessment. The guy I was at the party with might not be hot to other guys (doesn't spend hours at the gym, was wearing a nerdy T-shirt) but in my opinion he is very physically attractive, and his personality is so amazing he had some of the other ladies eyeing him up as well. Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 It sounds like those women made one too many bad decisions, and they insecurely believe you'll be another one. They have baggage. This could be it however, most women are DTF regardless if the guy is attractive enough. He's doing something to turn them off or giving off a hit-it & quit-it vibe. Or he's a troll. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 Do yo uknow what it is like to sit down at a party trying to read a magazine in the living room and have all these hot chicks wanting to sit on my lap or rub baby oil on my back? It's tough I tellya....It's hard to be sexxxyyy They should at least spring for the good stuff. I have this Mango flavored oil that is the bomb. I would stalk you right now but I am financially tapped from following you on the last cross-country tour. Following sexxxy is so exhausting. But really, I can't help myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr_sexxxy Posted November 7, 2011 Author Share Posted November 7, 2011 I often have this problem..... I am so hot that I make girls like Jessica Alba shake in fear. It's a very distressing, depressing and dehabilitating thing to go through. ~Eric. I only get this type of reaction on fri and sat nights for the most part. Otherwise, women are too focused on their routine to really notice. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 I only get this type of reaction on fri and sat nights for the most part. Otherwise, women are too focused on their routine to really notice. Hopefully your presence on the road has not caused too many fatalities. LOL Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 I'm not scared to talk to any gender, male or female. What makes a guy hot isn't just his looks- it's his demeanor as well. I might see a guy that looks attractive enough on the outside, but if he displays any sort of arrogance, or gives off a player sort of vibe- I won't give him the time of day. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr_sexxxy Posted November 7, 2011 Author Share Posted November 7, 2011 The girl in question at the party did like my personality lol. She said so albeit obliquely. She also complimented me on my posture oddly enough. But she was sarcastic and implied I was a player. She was very enthusiastic about going out but not staying out too late. I am not the typical hot guy as I have multiple advanced degrees, and look 10-15 years younger than my age which confuses girls even more. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 The girl in question at the party did like my personality lol. She said so albeit obliquely. She also complimented me on my posture oddly enough. But she was sarcastic and implied I was a player. She was very enthusiastic about going out but not staying out too late. I am not the typical hot guy as I have multiple advanced degrees, and look 10-15 years younger than my age which confuses girls even more. She implied you were a player. So there you go. Maybe you give off that vibe. How old are you? In your 30's? And how old are these women? In their 20's? They probably aren't looking to date an older man. They want someone their own age. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 Who are you Brad Pitt? More like Shaun-Dro and/or Mr. Dream Merchant. Those are the only guys around who actually think that women are paralyzed and agape when confronted by their godlike appearance. Can you imagine? OP, when you enter a room does all conversation stop? Is there a sound of a chorus of heavenly voices raised in praise? Does a halo of blinding light radiate around your body? Link to post Share on other sites
eatNrM Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 More like Shaun-Dro and/or Mr. Dream Merchant. Those are the only guys around who actually think that women are paralyzed and agape when confronted by their godlike appearance. Can you imagine? OP, when you enter a room does all conversation stop? Is there a sound of a chorus of heavenly voices raised in praise? Does a halo of blinding light radiate around your body? This only happens to me when I pull down my pants. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 This only happens to me when I pull down my pants. Especially immediately upon arriving at a party! OP, is this what you did? I think it would explain the girls' reactions. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 More like Shaun-Dro and/or Mr. Dream Merchant. Those are the only guys around who actually think that women are paralyzed and agape when confronted by their godlike appearance. Can you imagine? OP, when you enter a room does all conversation stop? Is there a sound of a chorus of heavenly voices raised in praise? Does a halo of blinding light radiate around your body? Pulllleeez!!!! I sense arrogance from this guy. His username screams it, does it not? Chicks like confidence, but arrogance, not so much. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 This only happens to me when I pull down my pants. Hahahahahahahahaha:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 OP: The reason girls don't like you is NOT because you are too sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxy. The fact that you think so, though, might be a clue to the real reason. Link to post Share on other sites
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