Is it him or me?

[neveragain2493]

I feel sort of frustrated in my relationship lately, but I'm not sure if I'm just stressed out or if my boyfriend's feelings have changed. We've been together for 2 years now, and I really do feel like he's the only person I can see myself with for the rest of my life. We started college together, and it's gotten stressful, but we still see each other every day.

I feel like there are some things I'd do for him that he wouldn't do for me. A few weeks ago, my friends and I went out, and the entire time, he wouldn't even speak to me because he didn't want to be there. He told me "I made him" go, but all I did was ask, and he went. After we were done, he admitted he had a good time and apologized. Whenever he had an event, I would go to it and sit through it for hours, but when I had one, he'd just say, "I don't feel like going." When I mention that, he just says, "I gave you the option not to go to my stuff." My senior year, I was nominated for homecoming queen, and when I told him, the first thing he said was, "Does this mean I have to take you?" No congratulations. He says it's because he gets really nervous at stuff like this and would rather not be there.

Our first year of dating, he'd say sweet things and tell me how gorgeous I looked, but whenever I mention that he doesn't do that as much, he always says, "I'll think of something!" or "I can't do it on command!" I'd get a sweet text in the morning, but since we just go to college together every morning, I don't get them anymore.

He got his ex a promise ring, and they only dated for a year and a half, but whenever I mention it, he says, "I'll think about it."

 

Don't get me wrong, he still gives me loads of attention, but I feel like sometimes I want him to be serious or romantic when he wants to joke around. I can't help but get easily irritated with him when I'm tired, stressed, or sad, and all of these things just flood into my head.