MontanaGirl Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 Hi all, wanted to update anyone interested on how my ex's visit went. My original thread is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t300412/ In brief, an ex from 7 years ago (who I broke up with because I was young and stupid) came to visit this weekend. I wasn't sure before his visit what he was thinking regarding this trip, and was agonizing/obsessing about it for the last month until he came. As the title says, our weekend was absolutely amazing. I couldn't imagine a sweeter, more perfect visit. It started slow, respectful, unhurried, and built over the weekend into something even deeper than I hoped for. Even though it was too short a trip, emotionally it felt like so much longer than a weekend (in a good way, lol). We fit together perfectly, better even than we did in the past. Before he left we started planning trip number two, I can hardly wait. I'm on cloud nine. Link to post Share on other sites
leoc1973 Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 HEHE, Good for you montana! So many of us come on here looking for some kind of hope or something. I am on here because of a recent ex. But the one love of my life is way in the past maybe 8 or 9 years ago. She was the one that got away and it was my fault cause I was young and dumb. I wanted to go out and party as a lot of young people do. I lost her not only was she perfect for me in every way these days I hear she is a harvard professor. LOL how stupid was I? Anyways... Maybe I will look her up because ya never know. Its so awesome that you are getting your second chance. Keep us posted because due to the nature of it there is so much negativity on this site. I mean it is mostly a heartbreak site so I guess it goes hand in hand but keep the positive stories coming. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
Lis007 Posted November 7, 2011 Share Posted November 7, 2011 Congratulations good luck to both of you !! Link to post Share on other sites
Author MontanaGirl Posted November 8, 2011 Author Share Posted November 8, 2011 Thanks guys. Leoc, sorry about your recent ex, and more sorry about the one that got away. I think as hard as it is, truly walking away for a while is really the best chance of rekindling something in the future. So you never know, maybe you and the professor will have another chance. Funny, my guy is also an academic in the greater Boston area.... I feel a little guilty gushing hearts and rainbows on a site meant to help heartbroken people, but maybe someone will take peace in the probability that their ex will want them back at one point or another. The theme I've noticed on this board and real life is that most exes show interest in reconciliation at some point or another. Of course it's just usually after the other person has moved on with his life, but not always. Link to post Share on other sites
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