JonGarcia Posted May 22, 2004 Share Posted May 22, 2004 Hi, I'm a boy. See, I've been thinking about girls all my life. I don't know why I don't talk to them very often. I'm having hard time stepping up to them. I get so scared and all shakey. I just can't stand myself. I go saying to myself "Go talk to her" and I don't do it. But now when I ask them out, they've been taken because I've been to slow and wasn't ready. Tell you what I'm never gonna be ready. Please help me, help me holla at a chick! Please! Link to post Share on other sites
Bohdi10 Posted May 23, 2004 Share Posted May 23, 2004 I know exactly how you feel. But one thing girls like is confidence. They dont' want someone who is scared to talk to them. You just have to go up to the girl and try. It isn't easy to do, but the only way you are going to get a girl is to try. The best advice I can give you is that you only need one. If you talk to 20 girls and ask all of them out you only need 1 of the 20 to say yes, and who cares about the other 19. There loss. Link to post Share on other sites
simplybrill Posted June 14, 2004 Share Posted June 14, 2004 Well whatever you do, dont send another girl to talk to her for you. There's something to be said about a guy that can find the cojones to walk up to a girl and say hey, whats up. Just start a friendly convo, we dont bite I promise! I had a similar thing happen, this cute guy-nice enough I guess, sent some girl I hardly know to come talk to me and she totally messed it up, for him and for me.... There was nothing wrong with the guy, he was cute, Puertorican, nice- but bc he didnt come talk to me himself, it might have been cute that he was shy if he was shy like if he walked up to me and was shy at first, but it was stupid that he sent some chick I didnt even know that well- who showed up in the middle of the night at my place half dressed literally, askin if I wanted to go to the club with him that minute, right when I was about to go to bed! Im sorry but he should have known better than to mess with a latina when she's about to go to sleep after she's been to work and classes all day. I guess what Im trying to say is, it says something about your character, to do things yourself, rather than send other people. Dont stress too much about approaching girls, if its meant to be-you wont be sooo nervous you cant speak, youll be fine, because you'll be in love Link to post Share on other sites
Anshul Posted August 21, 2004 Share Posted August 21, 2004 I walked up to this european girl who works in my doctors clinic and on the road while she was on her lunch break I just told her how beautiful she was. I didnt say I like you but the next thing I know few days later she passes by from the opposite direction and stared in my eyes with this big smile on her face. I cudnt understand. All I had said to her was you are gorgeous and I think you are very beautiful. I think she like the confidence, I dont know if she was expecting anything from her smile, it was like I know that you think about me kind of smile. I just said Helllooo and stared straight in her face. can any girl advise me wat this is Link to post Share on other sites
swordian Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 chicks do lik confidence. i know i hav a prob but yet i can help others right. If u can just go up and so much as say hi i think it leaves an impression. I know some dude who said while talking to a girl he thought about baseball to get his mind off what the heck he was doin Link to post Share on other sites
2ndgenrationOW Posted August 25, 2004 Share Posted August 25, 2004 coming from a good girl who's best friend is a guy who is shy sometimes you just have to take the bull by the horns and go up to the girl you like cause you know what girls can be shy also and if both of you are shy well then i guess nether one of you will win and just think if she comes up to you how much harder that will be for you just a thought for you take life by the horns and never let the bull get you down Link to post Share on other sites
ytaimaishu Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 I honestly have never been with a girl more than a week, and im 20. I have no idea what to say to them, whem im myself they skirt. Havn't the slightest clue what to do. And I have been depressed becuase of this, so I don't have too much confidense, but i know i can't be because ive been turned down 50/50 times, and its gettin REALLY OLD Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 LOL You sound like my bf. My bf's longest relationship with a girl before me was no longer than a week. He swore he was never going to fall in love any time soon, and he was just going to date and have fun. Then BOOM! He met me. Hes 20 now and weve been together for 6 months and he said he finally found his "good girl" He's said I Love You after he swore he wasn't lol and u see everything will work out for you. She will come to you and you guys will meet. Dont get frustrated. Eventually she will come along when you least expect it. Link to post Share on other sites
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