Ilovewater Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 (edited) In both of your theories, you painted him as a messed up creeper. Why would you want to continue with this man unless you're that desperate for some companionship? You should be smart enough to know this is not worth your time. You said you're a med student in Chicago, right? Why don't you try to look for men through school stuff instead of going after men at clubs and parties? That seems to not work so far.... Both Pritzker and Northwestern have big campuses since they have undergrad campuses as well as other grad schools. Maybe a different environment will give better results. Edited November 12, 2011 by Ilovewater . Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 I know some poeple on this board will judge me but some more things happened since the first date and the whole situation keeps getting stranger and stranger: On Thursday he texted me saying that he got tickets for both of us to go clubbing on Saturday and he wants to take me to a movie on Friday. We kept texting eachother whole day. Last night we met up to go see the movie. He was still kind of cold and kept giving off a nervous and restless vibe. The whole date was super formal. He did not flirt or try to make any sort of physical contact except giving me a small peck on the lips at the end. He kept checking his phone (a different number, not the wife) this time and again paid with cash. After the movie, in the car he kept talking about how he is depressed with life and wants to make life changes and does not know what he wants anymore. Tomorrow night we are supposed to go clubbing. I do not know what to think. I have two theories: (i) He is a very messed up guy who just wants some companionship and he is not interested in anything physical. (ii) He is a sociopath and this whole thing is a game to him and his ultimate goal is to sleep with me. What do you guys think? And you're still going out with him? Do you want to know what I really think? You're obviously a good match for each other. Have to be! As everything he is doing is obviously working for you....and you continue to see him and then post on forums about how you think he is crazy but you still want to see him....sooo I'm not sure what you're expecting anyone here to say? You found out he is a liar and is married BEFORE you went out...you still went out. On the date he was talking to his wife for 10 minute intervals all night....you still stayed You posted on LS about his behavior and now say he is a sociopath either way...and you're still going out. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 And you're still going out with him? Do you want to know what I really think? You're obviously a good match for each other. Have to be! As everything he is doing is obviously working for you....and you continue to see him and then post on forums about how you think he is crazy but you still want to see him....sooo I'm not sure what you're expecting anyone here to say? You found out he is a liar and is married BEFORE you went out...you still went out. On the date he was talking to his wife for 10 minute intervals all night....you still stayed You posted on LS about his behavior and now say he is a sociopath either way...and you're still going out. Chick has issues. Forget about her married man. Link to post Share on other sites
despicableME Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 You know what... I'll be straight-up honest with you. You like the attention; you like the drama; you like his brokeness... there, I said it. It seems you want people to tell you its O.K. I'm not going to do it. You've been warned of the consequences already. Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonMI Posted November 12, 2011 Share Posted November 12, 2011 You know what... I'll be straight-up honest with you. You like the attention; you like the drama; you like his brokeness... there, I said it. It seems you want people to tell you its O.K. I'm not going to do it. You've been warned of the consequences already. BINGO!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
rockergirl Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 Run dont walk. it will lead to heartbreak and a WASTE OF TIME!! you will get sucked in to a bad situation, its very easy for this to happen. dont believe a word he says. you have your whole life ahead of you:) Link to post Share on other sites
phillyfan Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 Dude: 1) he is married 2) he likes bein married but is bored of bangin the same woman 3) so he hangs out in bars pickin up other girls 4) then he has sex wit them 5) but he has 2 keep takin calls from his wife else she wil get suspishious and he is sh*t scaref of his wife bustin his nuts if she finds him wit otha girls So unless u want meaninless sex wit a married dude who is a douche, and who has sex wit multipl girls he piks up in bars, id move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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