masemaid Posted May 22, 2004 Share Posted May 22, 2004 hi,I was with my ex girlfriend for two years.She broke up with me over a month ago.Less than a week she already had somebody else....this guy that she use to date before me.She doesn't know that i know that.Her mom told me.They said that she has known this guy for 5 years.I know that there going together.I have made some mistakes.4 times........and a internet mistake.One girl i met and took her to burger king,i wrote her a letter telling her i miss her in a friendly way.Also,i have had some friends before her and i told them that i miss them in a friendly way.There also was a time when my roomate use my phone to call a girl,my ex look through my phone and seen this number and called it back and went crazy.After all of this she took me back.Also there have been some arguments between us where there have been grabbing but no beatings.I got her some flowers and a teddy bear...dozen of roses and one white roze....and a letter and a card and she went crazy like.......leave me the hell alone.She is 24..ready to turn 25 in sept.....i'm about to be 23... i love her and miss her.I bought her an engagement ring and she turned me down...we almost had a child together...she bought me an engagment ring earlier in our relationship....she tell me..that i want to be your friend and maybe later we can be closer as friends.I love her and i realize my mistakes,but she doesn't want to give me a chance...She has a daughter that i love to death and i love her with all my heart and soul and i want to marry this girl.What do i do? I guess i have to give her some time right? Is she thinking about even though she is messing with him?I haven't talk to her for 4 days?How long should i leave her alone?Do you think that i have lost her for good? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 23, 2004 Share Posted May 23, 2004 She broke up with you. She is seeing someone else. She told you that maybe in the future the two of you could be friends. I don't really see what there is that you can do other than learn from the mistakes you made in this relationship & try not to repeat them with the next one. Link to post Share on other sites
lost_in_chgo Posted May 23, 2004 Share Posted May 23, 2004 I've had a similar situation and it is going on for over 7 months now. Don't expect a quick resolution. Move on, but keep the door open for her if you want. Link to post Share on other sites
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