Vesna Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 Apart from the fact that my brother is a two bottles of red wine a day alcoholic who smokes a lot of pot, he also has an obsession with sex. He is newly divorced and has made contact with an old 'friend' who fulfils his needs. I congratulate him for that but he won't stop talking about his sex life in dirty detail. It disgusts me. I am too afraid to tell him that it is TMI because he has become such an angry person who hates the human race, including me. He has joined a crowd of prominent arty people and his name dropping is pissing me off. I don't dare tell him that I think he is seriously ill and I don't ever want to be alone with him again. He has some twisted views as far as sex goes. For example, he thinks women should be on the pill in order to look horny all the time. He perves on women constantly, some of them disturbingly young. He is a recovering porn addict who claims to have accidentally downloaded child porn and says that it haunts him, thinking he will be discovered. One last thing. When he rolls joints he gives his five year old daughter the seeds to eat. I am aware that if it looks like a duck................ Opinions anyone? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vesna Posted November 11, 2011 Author Share Posted November 11, 2011 He also drives when he is drunk, with alarming frequency and I know his kids are in the car with him. To top it off he drives dangerously, pissed or sober. I am concerned and feel like I am in a quandary. Do I trust my gut and report him? Or do I wait for him to get caught. He admits he is suicidal. Link to post Share on other sites
creighton0123 Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 For the safety of his children, you should report him and get him some help. His behavior is his own, but the moment he does things that can cause serious harm or death to others, he crosses the line. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 One last thing. When he rolls joints he gives his five year old daughter the seeds to eat. She's destined to become high school valedictorian if he keeps up the good work. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vesna Posted November 11, 2011 Author Share Posted November 11, 2011 Your messages are clear to me. I feel like a narc for having to do this but people are right; he has to get off the road and dry out. If it takes a kick in the bum by the legal community then so be it. Just another observation I recall; our parents were extremely narcissistic and were addicts as well. While they left my brother to just grow up and be normal, I was forced into early education, ballet, martial arts, poetry, history, languages and all the rest. It was a waste of time for them and a source of constant need to impress for me, lest I was beaten for embarassing them by being 'average'. My brother is doing this to his daughter and naturally he will bask in her glory while his teenage son remains vaccuous and uninterested in life. I fear for her sanity as the young woman she will so quickly become, with no break in between just to be a girl. Link to post Share on other sites
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 I'm not a fan of meddling. Link to post Share on other sites
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