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I don't know whats going on. mixed signals


SkyEmtRN

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Long story short: Me and my g/f broke up after 2 years and a half. She's 24 I'm 21. Her reason was that she does not feel the same as she used to, and its not the same. During the time of our break up we were both under HIGH stress from our lives outside of the relationship.

 

She also said that she felt trapped but doesn't know why and she feels free but doesn't know why. To me that's complete bull sh*t. We did have a rocky start and we both admitted to our mistakes. We did have great times together.

 

So time goes one I tried to fight for her back but got no where. Then I got to the point where I was like what else can I do or why am I doing this for someone who made the break up like sh*t.

 

So far its been a month after break up. I have been working on my physical image to better myself and I was able to reduce school stress.

 

3 days ago I started to plan that I'm going to let her chase me. I'm going to keep all conversation to a minimal one word answer and closed ended. I'm going to show her that I can have fun without her.

 

Day 1 of plan:

I put a smiley face in my status. She messages me saying "lol whats with the smiley can we talk just as friends" I ignored. Then she writes "nvermindd" and then "lol did you get a date" I no responded to her.

 

Day 2:

I txted her "hey i read your messages hope you have a good day" Then went the hole day without texting. At the night time she messages me saying "hey im glad your happy" and we had a conversation nothing serious. I tried to keep my answers short and closed. She showed me a picture of something shew drew. Then I drew the samething on MS Paint and she was all "omg i love that". Then towards end she says "[FONT=Helvetica]im shutting down n phones up stairs but ill be up soon have a gnite" I didn't say g'nite until i knew she fell asleep. Then in the middle of that night she texted saying "theres no reason why you shouldnt be happy, I just thought something good happened" I never responded[/FONT]

 

Day 3

I texted her g'morning and enjoy work. She said "ty u too" I said "ty" Then five minutes later she says "see you already have girls trying to talk to you" I no responded

 

Day 4:

No contact until end of night. She says "hi how are you, have a good day?" I said "sry I gotta do something be back in 40mins" That was a complete lie. Then she says "lol its ok just wanted to say hi, not trying to lead you on" Then I said "ok never said you were" She said "ok ok just saying grr" But still ended up talking. I saw her stalking my facebook and made another reference to people trying to talk to me. She tells me a lot of whats going on in her life (excluded any guy etc which i doubt there is any). Then she asks me "oh so your going out friday hm" I ignored.

]Then at end of night she said "incase I pass out, have a g'nite" And she fell asleep with her laptop off. DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.

 

Day 5:

No Contact

 

Day 6 morning till now"

No contact

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