lilmoma1973 Posted May 23, 2004 Share Posted May 23, 2004 [font=courier new][/font][color=indigo][/color] hey all this a situation my son is dealing with need all the advice we can get so here goes... He dated this girl for 8 mths got along really good and they did alot together they were inseperatable.. then one day she decided she didn't want to date him she gave no reason except she was busy.. she cheers and had volleyball at the time and he played basketball and baseball but he still made time for her .. she got with a new set of friends while playing volleyball and it all changed.. after they broke up we still did things together with her and her family shealways acted like she liked him when they were alone but when she got with her newfriends she acted different .. she gives him mixed signals all the time .. she hasn't went out with anybody and he did cause he moved on well she acted like she got mad.. but after he broke up with the other girl she still made no effort to go out .. she says she just wants to be friends but her actions say something different.. he doesn't understand.. he did get jealous at the end of their relationship and he regrets it.. well they went to a dance together and she acted all excited and he wasn't because he still really likes her and has strong feelings and he was scared she would ignore him at the dance.. she said she wanted to go to the dance with him but yet at the dance she dances with the guy that he heard she liked and doesn't dance with him and he is her date not the other guy .. i think that he has alot to offer her and she gives him the cold shoulder only around her new set of friends and after the dance they were with one other couple and she was flirting alot then he asks these friends .. does she like me? they tell him always no she doesn't .. he doesn't ever hear it come from her mouth so he doesn't know what to believe anymore .. the parents really like my son and we enjoy their company too so they are always saying she likes him and she likes doing things with my son .. we don't know what to believe just don't want to see him hurt.. i tell him to move on and find another girl that likes you and not plays games.. we are confused and would like some advice if you have any!! we sometimes feel that they are trying to push her to be with him cause they like my son but we would like to resolve this issue so any advice would be appreciated!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 23, 2004 Share Posted May 23, 2004 Sounds like her new friends don't like your son. If she is silly enough to allow her new friends to make these kinds of choices for her then this i tell him to move on and find another girl that likes you and not plays games.. is the best advice you could give him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilmoma1973 Posted May 23, 2004 Author Share Posted May 23, 2004 [font=courier new][/font][color=darkblue][/color] hey bluechocolate i totally agree with you and i have told him to move on and find someone that likes him and doesn't play games with him.. he says that he likes her and don't doesn't like anyone else so what are you to do? thanks for all the help greatly appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 23, 2004 Share Posted May 23, 2004 I guess kids just have to learn some lessons the hard way, eh? Maybe suggest he go with what he "knows" rather than what he "feels" he knows she is sending mixed signals he knows she disrespected him at the dance when she was his date he knows her friends say she doesn't like him.... you get the drift? Good luck to him ( & you ) Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilmoma1973 Posted May 24, 2004 Author Share Posted May 24, 2004 [font=courier new][/font][color=indigo][/color] thanks bluechocolate for the reply i gave him the advice the rest is all up to him now ill keep ya posted as to what he says thanks again Link to post Share on other sites
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