sabiskittles Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 My boyfriend and I have been living together for about a year and a half, and it's been over a year since he's fully satisfied me in bed. We used to have sex frequently (daily, sometimes multiple times a day), but he's been working a temporary job now and we're only having sex once or twice a week. I've done my best to accept that it's been so long since he's satisfied me, since at least the frequency made up for it and he made attempts to do things I like to at least make it enjoyable, but now between the lack of sex (mind you, he's looked at porn more frequently than he's had sex with me. He hasn't been masturbating but it's obvious his sex drive isn't MIA) is making it hard to deal with. We've been considered getting engaged, and as of late he's been looking at rings... the problem is, while I know sex isn't everything, do I really want to spend the rest of my life with a man who may never sexually satisfy me? I don't know how to tell him that the fact he hasn't given me an orgasm in over a year is really starting to get to me! By the way, I go down on him daily, at times for over an hour, and do my best to indulge all his sexual fantasies. While usually he has to put some effort in, it's not uncommon for me to get him off through no effort of his. I feel it's unfair that he wants me to satisfy him every day, but he won't satisfy me! Link to post Share on other sites
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 If everything is okay except the sex, well, think about it. If you look around, it's hard to find a good man. And what if the same thing happens again. I might add. Be open with him about your desires in bed. You're putting in a lot of effort. It's fair to ask that it be reciprocated. Link to post Share on other sites
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