Localover Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 (edited) My boyfriend and I been together for about four years we respect each other space and phones. Wha he doesn't know is tha I am able to see incominging Calls from his phone on line at our phone bill website. I recently been seeing this number a lot which is unfamiliar. I called the number privite ofcourse and it was a unfamiliar female voice. I quickly hung up and now I don't know what to do? Should i talk to the female and find out who she is...and ive heard her leave voice messages about call me back as well..keep in my mind my boyfriend doesn't know I can acess this calls. Edited November 13, 2011 by Localover Link to post Share on other sites
Stephen Asamoah Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 My boyfriend and I been together for about four years we respect each other space and phones. Wha he doesn't know is tha I am able to see incominging Calls from his phone on line at our phone bill website. I recently been seeing this number a lot which is unfamiliar. I called the number privite ofcourse and it was a unfamiliar female voice. I quickly hung up and now I don't know what to do? Should i talk to the female and find out who she is...and ive heard her leave voice messages about call me back as well..keep in my mind my boyfriend doesn't know I can acess this calls. plssssssssssssss be calm n study Link to post Share on other sites
ErgoStep Posted November 14, 2011 Share Posted November 14, 2011 You've been together for four years. That is a long time. Most couples are married in a year or two. I would ignore the (possible) cheating and clarify with him if this is a lifetime relationship with yourself, or if you're going to be in limbo for a while. Or just leave him. Find a man who wants to marry. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted November 14, 2011 Share Posted November 14, 2011 Does he work with women, and does he use his cell for work? I would just ask him. So he finds out that you have detailed billing on your bill - so what? It isn't like that is a state secret or anything. Most people can see the phone calls on their phone bills. Or are you afraid that he will change his calling habits and you won't be able to see his calls anymore, and you will lose this way to keep track of him? Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted November 14, 2011 Share Posted November 14, 2011 DO NOT REVEAL YOUR SOURCES Do not ask him, he will deny it Do not ask her, she will deny it Time to get a keylogger..... Look many people say that's an invasion of privacy, etc all....well its an invasion of his secrecy actually. 4 years together? That is dress rehearsal enough for a life together and I would say go with your gut...just remember never to reveal your sources because if there is something to it and you reveal too soon, chances are they will take it underground remain calm ..he is not going to just up and tell you about this as an epiphany so just keep on investigating until you have concrete proof... Link to post Share on other sites
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