Ex Gf Calling/Texting after 3 Months NC. This is for the Dumpees

[Sugarkane]

Just an update. She ended up bailing on me. Said she re-injured herself at the hospital and had to go to the doctor today. So I simply texted her and said 'Right. Thanks for letting me know.' Then she unloads on me and says 'Oh are you being sarcastic?' and 'Oh this actually happened why do I even have to prove it to you? WHy are you upset?'

 

I just said 'Listen, I actually really meant thanks for letting me know. Now I can make other plans. Good luck.'

 

She calls about an hour later, acts like she never turned into drama queen and I got off the phone with her after a few minutes of her explaining herself. So tonite I'm going to have fun. Tomorrow I have a date.

 

How convenient Of her. Typical dumper.

[lalalandman]

Thanks to all for the support.

 

I just want to make something very clear to everyone reading. This thread is not about Reconciliation. It has nothing to do with "Getting your ex back". Absolutely nothing to do with revenge. This is beyond NC.

 

This is about something that has brewed up among the forums called VALUE. Wilson mentions it plenty. If you have it, and recognize it, nothing and nobody can touch it. NC only goes so far. I understand the importance of NC, but I feel that facing her was better than ignoring her because, not only did it help me recognize my value, but I gained some as well.

Edited November 19, 2011 by lalalandman