Bohdi10 Posted May 24, 2004 Share Posted May 24, 2004 I am a single guy and am having trouble when it comes to getting a girlfriend. I am a confident guy who does actually try when I'm out at the bar or parties to talk to girls and get there phone numbers. I always seem to get numbers and it never works out after that. I either get awkward phone conversations or sometimes no answers at all to messages I leave on their voicemail. I recently got a phone number from this girl and I have talked to her a few times on the phone but we haven't yet hung out. She seems to like talking to me but when it comes up to hang out it is like well I don't know what I'm up to tonight. I have been told I'm cute and fun. People see me differently then I see myself. I would describe myself as an average nice guy who likes to have a good time. I have been in some serious relationships where I have been burned badly by in the past, so it gets harder to play the field each time that happens. What am I doing wrong? What can I do differently? What is it girls are truly looking for? Because I seem to not have a clue. Link to post Share on other sites
colleen26 Posted May 24, 2004 Share Posted May 24, 2004 Well in response to your question about what us girls are looking for. I don't think we are looking for anything in general it just happens if the chemistry is there. Personally based on expereince I do not think that meeting girls in bars or at parties are going to result in anything serious. I know but where else do you go? I am a single woman in the same situation and I always end up in those scenes as well but there is not enough people in them that are seeking what we are. Most women in that enviroment I think are just looking to flirt, hang out, get free drinks or just get the attention but not looking for more. I would not say you are doing anythingwrong because I feel the same way but you know what it will happen when the time is right until then just go have fun and enjoy you while you can. I think that if you put to much pressure on finding someone you won't it just has to happen naturally.... I hope that I helped you and trust me hun I know what your going through. feel free to respond to me if you want more advice or just want to talk, we can share the perspectives of male vs female. -Colleen Link to post Share on other sites
abc Posted June 4, 2004 Share Posted June 4, 2004 You should not try to meet girls at the bars. Try going to other functions like charities. There is a better, more sober croud. Link to post Share on other sites
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