lilrocker098 Posted November 16, 2011 Share Posted November 16, 2011 Well to start off me and my husband have been married two years we have had our cheating phase and made it through it great, now recently he had got a new job and was gone from 7am till 2 or 3 am the next morning i know he is nt with another woman but he sure aint here with his kids and family. He said that he leaves for so long bc i bitch to much and he cant handle that all the time, so i told him i would calm down more and not nit pick if he would spend time with the family and work on our marriage and he said he would but he hasnt been home again for more then a couple hours at a time and he leaves go to a friends house to help them with their marriage. i dont know what to do anymore i feel like im the only one who puts forth all the effort in this marriage and his is just saying yes to please me. Am I doing something wrong. I truly love this man known him for 7 years now... Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted November 16, 2011 Share Posted November 16, 2011 Hey lilrocker You mentioned cheating, who cheated on who? how long ago was that? Also, how are you so sure that he's not seeing another woman? People that feel that they don't want to go home because its unpleasant due to nagging, or lack or sex, or just uncomfortable silence are likely to just fall for any person outside that relationship that makes them feel good about themselves. I'm not saying that to scare you or to be mean, but to open your eyes. Also, how does he help his friend's marriage? that sounded funny and kind of odd, what does he do? Have you guys thought about going to counseling? ( I know that sounds like a cookie cutter solution, but if he takes anything you say as nagging, you wont be able to really talk about anything, so maybe a mediator would be beneficial in your case). Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilrocker098 Posted November 17, 2011 Author Share Posted November 17, 2011 i cheated on him over a year and a half ago and he mentions it still bothers him...and he helps them with advice, i dont know if he is with another woman he did tell me recently that another girl tried kiss him but he turned his head so it was on the cheek, i have been told do counseling i just dont lke tlking ppl that havent been through what i am going through, but we prob are gonna go its much needed Link to post Share on other sites
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