Ashleym Posted May 24, 2004 Share Posted May 24, 2004 My husband and I have been married going on three yrs. We just had a son who is 6 months old. Ever since I was about 7 mo. pregnate he hasn't been sexually attracted to me. Since our son was born, we hardly ever have sex. When we do, he falls asleep before we actually start intercourse. Or he may fall asleep on the couch. That is something he use to never do. My husband is older than I am, he's 50 and I'm 24. We use to have fun together, but not anymore. He hardly stays at home. He and I work together, so we ride to and from together, this is where we met. I also have a daughter that is 8 years old. Since my son was born, my husband gets on to her about everything. When she talks to my husband it's almost like he's ignoring her. She plays base ball. Use to my husband came to every practice and every game, now it's very rare for him to be there. My daughter is from a previous marriage. I got out of it because he did not contribute to our relationship or finances and was abusive to me. Sometimes I still catch my self thinking about him and I have no idea why. Maybe it was because he was good in bed? My husband now is very jealous of my ex. I tell him that he has nothing to worry about. But then I think to myself, does he or does he not? Link to post Share on other sites
amanda25 Posted May 24, 2004 Share Posted May 24, 2004 Maybe you are just thinking about yer ex, as a result to yer new husband not having sex with you as much as he used to? I think If i were you, I would sit down and tell him how you feel..Maybe he isnt realizing he is even doing this, or maybe something is bothering him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ashleym Posted May 31, 2004 Author Share Posted May 31, 2004 If I sit down and talk to my husband about this he will just get mad. He is extremely jealous of my ex. If I have to talk to my ex on the phone about our daughter, then my husband gets mad and think that I want him back. Did I mention that my husband is quite a bit older and my ex is 1 year older that I am. Link to post Share on other sites
amanda25 Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Originally posted by Ashleym If I sit down and talk to my husband about this he will just get mad. He is extremely jealous of my ex. If I have to talk to my ex on the phone about our daughter, then my husband gets mad and think that I want him back. Did I mention that my husband is quite a bit older and my ex is 1 year older that I am. To each their own, BUT I really don't think age should be a factor..Yeah your ex may be closer to your age, but that doesnt mean anything...I would still sit down and talk to him about it..My boyfriend and I just went through something similar to this...We sat down and talked, and he wasnt a happy camper, and I was FURIOUS (he cheated), but we are working through it, we agreed... So, if you sit down and talk to him, and hes mad, tell him you are sorry if he is mad, but you have to express your feelings..If he gets mad, I am sure he will get over it... Communication is a big part in a relationship, and ask around here, they JUST got done telling me, like i am telling you, that "it is your responsibility in the relationship to be honest and say how you feel or ask questions, if you dont you are being decieving".. Good luck and Take CAre Link to post Share on other sites
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