DC2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Share Posted November 17, 2011 It's been about a month since my wife wanted to try separation. In the beginning I believed her but found out later that she not only cheated on me now but also did it back in 2009. I was shocked and wanted her out of my life. Only problem is we own a business together and we still see each other everyday. I asked her to leave the business and was willing to buy her out. Long story short she said no and will continue working at our shop. We have two kids together also. So in a week we still see each other as much as before but now she is living (sleeping) somewhere else. How am I suppose to heal when I see her everyday. What can I do without involving laywers? All my friends told me if I can do this without laywers I would save tonnes of money. How do I get rid of a wife that wanted separation in the first place, but won't leave me alone? PS. For the guys that told me in my first post about my wife having affair... I humbly appoligize. You guys where right. Link to post Share on other sites
AlexisMacabre Posted November 17, 2011 Share Posted November 17, 2011 just tell her straight up that you want her to leave you alone and the only way you will talk to her is if its business related, thats all i can think of. Link to post Share on other sites
findingnemo Posted November 17, 2011 Share Posted November 17, 2011 I'm sorry, DC2011. It's sad that your W gas lighted all along. I has suggested she move out and have visitation for the kids, and also that she work from her house since she could do that. At this point you will have to engage a lawyer. You won't save money by handling it on your own. You have to force her to cash out of the business as part of the divorce settlement. There are custody issues to sort out. Yes it will be expensive but it is also inevitable that lawyers get involved. Get yourself the toughest lawyer you can find. I also read some really good advice here on LS. See many good lawyers and hopefully she won't be able to hire any of them because of conflict of interest. Get some numbers and schedule appointments immediately. Your M is over. She lied and lied and lied. the faster you get anlawyer and have a plan, the sooner you'll begin to feel a little better about all this. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted November 17, 2011 Share Posted November 17, 2011 ? PS. For the guys that told me in my first post about my wife having affair... I humbly appoligize. You guys where right. I think we all understand, It (adultery) is indeed a bitter and difficult pill to swallow. Now will you please start listening to us??? ECONOMY OF WORDS, You need not say anything to her FIRM SOLID ACTIONS You stood up to your wife, she isn't used to it expect lots of wild bat$*tness from her. You need to be a rock. Say nothing, engage a lawyer (you cannot do this without one) If she tries to bait you into an argument hold your hand up " Wife until you can talk to me in a respectful tone, this conversation is over" then walk away (Carry a voice activated recorder at all times too) Act completely normal and happy in front of her(it's hard but you can do it). The only way you can keep her away from the business is legally, this is why you need to invest your money in the best lawyer money can buy and take legal counsel. If I were you I'd also camera up the business, just in case she accuses you of stealing or tries to make trouble for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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