Bohdi10 Posted May 24, 2004 Share Posted May 24, 2004 How does a guy get the girl he really wants? what are the right things to do and the wrong things to do? Link to post Share on other sites
Paradise Posted May 24, 2004 Share Posted May 24, 2004 What you're doing right now is the wrong thing. Why are you on your computer, when you can be talking to her and asking her out? Take her out and show her a good time. If two you of you hit it off, you'll end up 'boinging' in no time. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted May 25, 2004 Share Posted May 25, 2004 The answer to your question is: sometimes. Sometimes a guy gets the girl he wants, and we all know that some guys have a better batting average than others. I think what separates the guys with a high success rate from the ones who don't is confidence. You have to be confident, and you have to look it. I was talking about this thing not too long ago with another one of my buddies, and we both agreed that the times we were most successful with women were when we acted like we just didn't care one way or another whether we got in their pants or not. Of course we're horny, but you have to convince the girl that there's more to you than just raging hormones. Think back to your own past relationships. Chances are the girls who wanted you the most were the ones you were only somewhat interested in at first. It really didn't matter to you one way or the other what happened. You were just yourself, having fun being you, and the girl picked up on your vibe and the rest was history. Right? This brings me back to my point, which is: the guys with the high batting average make every girl think that they're fun to be with, and that they don't really care one way or the other what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
dbs Posted June 4, 2004 Share Posted June 4, 2004 Originally posted by Paradise What you're doing right now is the wrong thing. Why are you on your computer, when you can be talking to her and asking her out? Take her out and show her a good time. If two you of you hit it off, you'll end up 'boinging' in no time. holy crap!!! hes right!!! how did you do that!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
laralara Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 i wish all my boyfriends had loved my feet! i had to talk them into it or compromise just to get rubs, kisses, sucks, etc. it is heaven if you have ever had your feet and toes serviced! never a dominance thing for me--just pure joy, like getting your back and hands massaged. reflexology is this art/science of hitting the pressure points of your feet where they link to an area of your body. if you think about it, all the nerves/senses of your body end in your feet---try it. i have to admit selfishness; i am not into men's feet and only want the pampering directed to my own feet. i wish i knew all those men out there who have a foot fetish because i sure can't find them. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 Try placing a personal ad, lara. Link to post Share on other sites
Wolvesbaned Posted June 15, 2004 Share Posted June 15, 2004 How does a guy get the girl he really wants? What are the right things to do and the wrong things to do? The most important thing: Be yourself. What are you into? What are your interests? Hobbies? From model trains, to basketball and even a stamp collection... be proud of your interests. In my opinion, there's no other way to show your confidence more than just being into what you like to do. No explanations, no excuses, no wanna-be playing cool. When you learn to enjoy what you're into in front of a girl, you might just find someone that likes you for you --and better yet, she might share your interests! But maybe that's just me. A more generalized guide to macking requires dinero. Most women love romance and love being swept off their feet. If you're on a limited budget, you can get by with just being "thoughtful". Once you get to know her, she'll reveal little bits of information, maybe even comment about little things she likes --remember these! Looks. Great looking guys with a good personality and that doesn't prey on every good looking girl that crosses his path will get the girl. Key word: girl, not girls. Also, ignore the media's definition of handsome. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Confidence, is the key (not cockiness, then again some girls might be into that -- remember just be yourself). And if you are cocky -- please make sure you have reason to be. There's nothing worse than an idiot that acts like he's all that but no one has a clue why. As for playing off that you're really not interested... I don't know... it might work for some girls, but everyone is different. Most women I know would like to know if a guy is really interested, and girls are oddly perceptive in this department. I think age plays a factor though. Just don't over-do things. My 2 cents: If you like a girl, why play it off? Ask her out, go to dinner, spend a night at the theaters, go to the beach, take her to an amusement park, bring her flowers! (if you can't afford them, pick them ... in front of her even), act like you're interested in her because you are. Listen and ask questions, get to know her better, tell her about yourself, flirt, make her laugh, be a gentleman, be fun to be around, be yourself. One last thing. Don't play off that you're into something just because she is. It'll come out sooner or later that you're really not interested in whatever it is you're pretending to be interested in. Good luck & have fun Link to post Share on other sites
Shortboy Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 I know a girl and I like the same things as her but I'm not sure if she feels the same way about me as i feel about her, how can i be sure? Link to post Share on other sites
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