NicoleM Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 My boyfriend is getting help with his problems and I feel like I drove him away. He had major flirting problems and it drove a wedge into our relationship and finally I said maybe you should get some help for your issues and he told me fine I will get help. I hope he is getting the help he needs but quite honestly I have no idea since he told me to leave him alone while he gets help. I just want to cry and cry because I love him so much even though he did things I am not very proud of. The worst part is Saturday would of been our 5 month anniversary and here I am all alone:( Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 OK, I'll bite: Just what are his problems??? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 I hope he's getting help too. But, in the meantime, don't feel so alone.. You aren't "alone". You have friends and family to keep you busy and distracted. 5 months in, I know you love him and all but don't let this get you down for too long. Live life and keep busy.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NicoleM Posted November 22, 2011 Author Share Posted November 22, 2011 Thank you I hope so. He was addicted to porn and it was taking a toll on our relationship and like I said his flirting problems were also driving a wedge into our relationship. My friends do not understand why I am with him after all he did but I want to believe he can change and get help but I also realize he might lie and say he is getting help when in reality he is going back to his old tricks looking at porn and flirting with women just to get his ego stroked. In the meantime it is very tough for me because I suffer from depression so when people push me away it hurts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NicoleM Posted November 22, 2011 Author Share Posted November 22, 2011 (edited) I guess you are right. I want to believe he can change but in reality he probably won't. It just kills me to think maybe he isn't getting the right help and he left me for one of the girls he flirts with all of the time. I cannot fathom him just quickly moving from me and onto another girl that part worries me and makes me sick. I mean doesn't 5 months mean anything to him? No one could just move on that quickly could they? Edited November 22, 2011 by NicoleM Link to post Share on other sites
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