missy268 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Hey guys I'm turning to you all once again for a massive kick up the backside So i went no contact with my guy - who had the girlfriend, quick recap he kept coming round here telling me he wanted to be with me and i made him happy and we started an A, started sleeping together twice a week and then he went on holiday with her, and when he came back things were weird fast forward 2 months he finally left the girlfriend, but he started not texting me as much and i hardly saw him - I let him back into my life after going NC for 3 weeks and then we talked and i got upset he wasn't making time for me, but i found out he was meeting up with the ex so that was another week we didnt speak for We started talking last week on Monday again and on Friday night he came over, i had a bottle of wine and we ended up in bed i actually thought here we go again and then i wondered if id made a mistake.......and i have Was talking to a mutual friend, and she told me he had been meeting up with his ex often and also another mutual friend said that he had to warn him off his sister because he had been chatting her up or something - i told the other mutual friend what had happened with us because she will stay quiet, or so i thought, she rang him and had a go at him about all 3 of us and his reply to her was "am i not allowed to have friends, i just want to have fun and not be who i was" well lets put it this way i was in shock, and about 35 minutes later he text me, to which i replied but i never got a reply back Now im unsure whether to text him and tell him that im hurt and i know, or just to ignore him once again, go no conatct for real and if mutual friends hate me for it they have to understand? Im fed up of being lifes looser, loosing friends, not being able to maintain a relationship Lesson learnt - some guys who cheat when they leave just carry on playing games!! I feel like ive lost one of my closest friends Kick up the backside please! Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Invest some money in counselling to help you understand why you have zero self esteem and respect, and zero will power. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 If only.......... Link to post Share on other sites
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