Author mav2112 Posted May 28, 2004 Author Share Posted May 28, 2004 Hell, stay long enough and the courts may hit you for child support if you divorce (are the kids' dad in their lives?) There dads are in there lives............it would be a pretty clean break if I left. Should I share this with my immediate family? They think highly of her now but something tells me they wont now. Should I give the guy she cheated with a call and tell him I know everything and to to" make sure he stays out of the picture or it will be the last scene he will be in?"..........you know what I mean???? Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted May 28, 2004 Share Posted May 28, 2004 Hello, I would like to answer your two questions. First, I would confide in your family because they are the ones that truly love you and want what is best for you. Second, I would not waste my time contacting the OM. It was your wife that made the choice to screw this guy for 6 months. It was your wife that decided to lie to you for 6 months. It was your wife that decided to put your health at risk and make a mockery of a marriage that you were only in for 1 and a half years at the time. Contacting the OM makes it seem that it was all his fault and your wife had no choice in the matter. It would be the equivalent of you going and meeting a strange woman at a bar , having sex, and meeting her for 6 months screwing her and finally getting caught and having your wife yell at the woman for having sex with you. How ridiculous is that? I am afraid that you truly are in denial. Nevertheless I do wish you luck because you will need it. Link to post Share on other sites
Fritz Posted May 28, 2004 Share Posted May 28, 2004 I definately agree with Bryanp. Don't bother contacting him. Its not worth the effort, at best it may make you feel better for getting some anger out and at worst you could end up in jail for assault or making threats to him (don't call him and threaten his life) and that wouldn't look good during a divorce proceding. While the OM certainly is an arse, your wife was apparently very willing to engage in this affair, the blame lies with her. Definately talk to your family about it and get their input. Good luck and take care. Link to post Share on other sites
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