Sarah_J_uk Posted May 25, 2004 Share Posted May 25, 2004 Hey, my bf and i have been togther 13 months and we r going strong. I love him sooooo much and he loves me too. We practically live with one another as we go to the same school and then see each other most days off school. i was just wondering if this feeling of being trapped will pass. I honestly want to be with him for so long and we talk about the future but its my past that makes me feel trapped. Before i met him i used to hang around with guys, i have gotten on with guys better than girls since i was about 10. This is because i'm naturally very flirtacious and love to be flirted with. Since i've been with my boyfriend i haven't really been seeing my male friends and they all understand (luckly). However, there is one friend who i cannot avoid cos we have an almost identical timetable. Out of all my male friends me and this guy (name him Bob for now) have always been close. Recently he has started being flirty with me again, and as soon as he does i just erase him from my life for about a week cos the temptation to flirt back is huge. I don't want to end with my bf cos nothing is wrong with our relationship, i also don't want to end my friendship with 'bob' cos we r real close. I wait excitedly for texts from bob and always can't wait to see him cos we get on well. I guess this is the only thing i don't get in my relationship and i crave it. i'm such a freak. Next year my bf is leaving my school and bob and i are doing the same subjects. again. So what do you guys reckon... should i stop being friends with bob which would stop me being tempted to flirt? i would miss his friendship tho. should i feel free to flirt? Cos this would stop me feeling trapped but i would feel like i was being unfaithful to my bf. (my flirting isn't touchy feely or sexual in anyway, we just have a laugh). I also would worry that i might lead bob on or it might go too far and things might get uncomfortable with my bf. Please help... its going round and round in my head. Link to post Share on other sites
dudesomewhere Posted May 25, 2004 Share Posted May 25, 2004 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t39634/ a more complete picture is painted...yet still you need to let your bf go...he deserves better I think, as anyone does. There is more to this than flirting. Same scenarios I tell girls who flirt with me, why do you flirt if you have someone? Cuz they want to cheat. But your reasons are yours. Casual passing flirty remarks is one thing, constant flirting is another. Link to post Share on other sites
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