Ok...Guys, ?

[franci03]

So, I just started talking to this guy...about 2 weeks ago. We have been on 2 dates...and everything has been going well. This man is amazing...he does have kids and he even itroduced me to his youngest (5 years old). Who I instanly fell in love with...he is a great dad...and how happy he gets when he talks about his kids makes me even more attracted to him.

 

Anyways, we went out Sat. dinner...then dancing...I thought everything went perfect. Then Sunday after I got home he texted me and said he didn't think we could ever be anything more than friends because he doesn't think he can give me what I want (meaning kids of my own).

 

Well, I can't have kids, I recently had a pregnancy that ended up in a miscarriange and Dr.'s told me the chances of me ever conceiving again is about 20%...and I wasn't up front with him about this(but he now knows)...because I do want a family...so the only way I can have one is to find a guy who already has kids and wants to share that with me...or to adopt. Anyways, I wanted to find a man to be a lover and a friend first...if he had a family and we worked out...then great...if not...I don't want a man just for a family...I'm looking for a life partner here.

 

Anyways...what do I do...it was a complete 180...he was texting me...non stop and telling me he couldn't wait to see me...asking me anything and everything. We really hit it off...and now he won't talk to me...I have no clue what happened...I understand he has his kids to think about...but he tells me how good of a mom I would be...and all these things...and then nothing.

 

I'm so lost Any advice...thoughts...anything???