RStarB Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 My wife, Gwen and I have been having a lot of problems lately. We have been together for nearly three and half years and married for two years. The problem started last spring when we both decided we want to try spice up our marriage. So we took a vacation, but things were awkward for both of us. We both put lot of efforts into everything, but in end it just doesn’t feel right and it was hard for both of us. That’s when we decided that we need to take a long hard look at our marriage. We figured out the big problem is, we both are somewhat jealous of our friend’s relationship. We both want what our friends have in their relationship and to make thing even more shocking is, they’re not married and have been together for three years. Jenna, have a 5 years old daughter that her boyfriend, Rudy considers as his own. Rudy also is on a SWAT team which mean his job is very demanding and stressful plus he’s a professional athlete that compete at fairly high level. So Rudy often would be gone from early morning until late night and is always on call. Yet they still somehow manage to have a great relationship. I hate to admit this, but both Gwen and I wish that we could be similar to them. It is hard because my wife work and I got fired from job few months ago, so I’m trying to start home based business and we both are always tired. Also neither of us has the motivation to be the person each other want to be which put relationship in the rut. It is so frustrating to watch them having what we both wants for ourselves and each other. I don’t know where to start. I just hope there’s a way to make this happen. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 Stop comparing yourselves to other people and their marriage. No two relationships are the same. Also, you have NO idea what their relationship is like behind closed doors. You only see what they show you. Focus on your marriage, your wife and try to reconnect with her. You two married for a reason.. Right? Link to post Share on other sites
findingnemo Posted November 24, 2011 Share Posted November 24, 2011 As which way said.^^^ Link to post Share on other sites
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