dicky_fish Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 Having a bit of a bad time right now, no one in the house either so I'm all on my own. Just can't stop thinking about her; all the things I miss doing with her, all the friends and the life I used to have, and the sickening thought that she's now "the one that got away" and we all know that you never see those ever again. God I really miss her! Big cry time Link to post Share on other sites
fenderjames Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 Yes I understand friend . Its so hard . I dont know what to do either . Just memories ripping thru my head . So disappointed and hurt . Link to post Share on other sites
stunned8165 Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 I know how you feel. Yesterday was hard. I just don't understand how she can walk away from everything we had between her and I and her kids who know me as Dad for another jerk she knows nothing about after three years together. Everyone yells move on, move on.. Yeah, easier said then done when there are feelings scattered all over the place in your head and heart. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 Having a bit of a bad time right now, no one in the house either so I'm all on my own. Just can't stop thinking about her; all the things I miss doing with her, all the friends and the life I used to have, and the sickening thought that she's now "the one that got away" and we all know that you never see those ever again. God I really miss her! Big cry time Yep, been feeling like this all week since Monday. Don't know why, just comes on - I have one thought about her, then I'm thinking about her all the time and wanting her back more than anything. Surely your life hasn't changed that much mate? Yeah, maybe there's a shift in the circle of friends, but there's still the usual bunch you can hang out with. It's the quiet times with nothing to do that gets us thinking and missing the ex. Having plans or something to look forward to, that often helps. Even if it's just seeing a film, reading a book, playing Xbox or Googling for videos of people getting injured by horses... whatever it is, just something to occupy your mind. Oh and yeah, understand totally with the whole one that got away thing and the nightmare of knowing it's truly over and you'll never see them again. It's so hard to accept... Link to post Share on other sites
Author dicky_fish Posted November 25, 2011 Author Share Posted November 25, 2011 Surely your life hasn't changed that much mate? Yeah, maybe there's a shift in the circle of friends, but there's still the usual bunch you can hang out with. It's the quiet times with nothing to do that gets us thinking and missing the ex. Having plans or something to look forward to, that often helps. Even if it's just seeing a film, reading a book, playing Xbox or Googling for videos of people getting injured by horses... whatever it is, just something to occupy your mind. Yep everything has changed hugely and that's what is the worst part of it: everything's gone back to how it was before I met her, I'm stuck back in my home town with my old group of friends I've had since first school who I haven't really liked for years now. They're a bunch who have no ambition and back when I was a teenager they all drifted apart from me. With her I had a life, real friends and thought I'd found my "place" in the world, everything I'd ever wanted, but now that we're done all those brilliant friendships have disolved. Harsh realisation that I was just living a fantasy has been kicking in recently. I'm in an environment where there is just nothing, my friends only care about where the next night out is going to be, can't talk about my hobbies with them, and of course realising that I'm one of the million or so NEETs in the UK isn't bolstering my spirits. It's so strange. When I was with her I had dreams and ambitions, but without her they all seem so pointless. Link to post Share on other sites
ChelseaLS Posted November 25, 2011 Share Posted November 25, 2011 Yep everything has changed hugely and that's what is the worst part of it: everything's gone back to how it was before I met her, I'm stuck back in my home town with my old group of friends I've had since first school who I haven't really liked for years now. They're a bunch who have no ambition and back when I was a teenager they all drifted apart from me. With her I had a life, real friends and thought I'd found my "place" in the world, everything I'd ever wanted, but now that we're done all those brilliant friendships have disolved. Harsh realisation that I was just living a fantasy has been kicking in recently. I'm in an environment where there is just nothing, my friends only care about where the next night out is going to be, can't talk about my hobbies with them, and of course realising that I'm one of the million or so NEETs in the UK isn't bolstering my spirits. It's so strange. When I was with her I had dreams and ambitions, but without her they all seem so pointless. I can certainly relate. Everything is different now. The bad news just keeps piling up. It's a hard funk to shake. I often wonder when it will get better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dicky_fish Posted November 26, 2011 Author Share Posted November 26, 2011 I'm fed up things feeling slightly normal though! I keep getting these urges to go to hers or text her as if nothing's changed. I f*cking hate this! Link to post Share on other sites
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