friend into lover maybe

[Jason bourne]

I started college last year i meet this one amazing girl their shes the type who i would not hesatae to bring home and meet the folks shes everything i want in a girl i would say she is my best friend i think about her 24/7 and her friend does say she likes me but i dont really trust her.

 

Heres the catch she has a boyfriend about a month ago she was going to leave him bags packed and everything but it didnt happen thats when i was going to make my move i really want tell her how i feel but if i do i risk losing her as a friend if i dont tell her i could risk my future with her i am 99% sure she is the one im supposed to be with never felt like this about anyone before never fallen so hard so fast i have tryed all the usual methods to get over it nothing has worked.It doesnt help that we are both in the same classes i try to avioed her but she just sits next to me.

 

i was skeptikal at love at first sight not anymore its now 1.15 and im still up thinking about her just want to hear from anyone else who has had a simalir experiance because i just dont know what to do anymore i know theirs a50/50 shot at it we are all going on a night out next month i was thinking about telling her then when its justme and her.Any thoughts or comments would be helpfull thank you apolgeies for any speeling mistakes

[cerridwen]

Don't "make a move" when she's fresh out of a breakup or else you risk being the rebound guy--especially if they've been living together.

 

Spend some time thinking about how you'll handle a rejection, should it come.

Do you have the capacity to put it behind you and remain friends?

Or, will you want to end contact because of hurt feelings and awkwardness?

If you end contact, will having taken a shot be worth her absence in your life?

These things often end in terminated friendships.

Is that too high a price to pay?

 

I encourage you to consider these things.

Thinking about the realistic possibilities can help temper the high wave of emotion you're currently riding.

 

I still hope you get the girl.