imperfectangel Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 I went nc a few weeks ago and things were going well but he got intouch earlier this week talking about how much he wanted a affair so I asked him straight out why if things are so good with her he wants to see me. His reply floored me: Because your better at things and if we ever split up i'd want to be with you. Wtf do I make of this?! My reply was that I will not hang around waiting for him anymore and that was the last I heard from him but I feel like I'm back at square one again now he's on my mind all the time (again) How do I move on? Should I move on? I love him so much and want him in my life so much Link to post Share on other sites
Spark1111 Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 Did you ask him specifically WHAT THINGS you are better at? Because therein lies your answer, I would assume. Please ignore him and get on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author imperfectangel Posted November 26, 2011 Author Share Posted November 26, 2011 You're not being harsh this is why I post on here to get REAL replies and I thank you both for that When I read it I was asuming he meant sex. I haven't responded since and won't be but I guess I'm more mad at myself b/c I was doing so well with nc which I never though would work for me Link to post Share on other sites
jwi71 Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 How do I move on? Should I move on? I love him so much and want him in my life so much Well, first you're going to have to pick one of the two mutually exclusive paths you put out there: 1) get over him 2) have him in your life Which is it? Link to post Share on other sites
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