Does a spouse who longer wants to have sex have a right to expect faithfullness?

[sailorwoman]

Unless kids are involved I see no point in staying married if either partner plans to have sex outside the marriage. Affairs always end badly and only further destroy the marriage. You and your spouse will just become more and more emotionally and physically distant. Guess I'm old fashioned but I believe that when one marries they 1) must forsake sex with others and 2) must fully give of theirself and their body to their spouse. Women need their emotional needs met. Men need their physical needs met. If your spouse does not want to have sex with you anymore then something is very wrong in your relationship. Did you two ever have great sex together? When and why do you think the spark disappeared? Does she have an medical condition causing a loss of libido? Is she cheating? Does she suffer from addictions...such as porn?

 

For a while now I've noticed my fiance does not take interest in sex with me anymore. I'm a pretty girl. I never turn him down. I'm always happy to try different things the keep it fun. But regardless, there is a totaly emotional disconnect now. This past week I think I figured out why this is happening......I found porn all over his computer and iphone. I think it has reached the point that he prefers his virtual woman over me and it hurts very badly.