Similar Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 (edited) Hello, I would appreciate some feedback on the following... I have a friend - my best friend, whom I met through a dating site. We used to meet up on a friendly basis, not dating because I was looking for friends at the time also I thought he was too old for me. We both liked to play a particular sport. We stopped doing that after a while cos I wasn't good enough competition *lol* (I started dating someone as well). From the start we've communicated pretty much every eve, several hours, late into the night sometimes. I was dumped at the same time he started dating someone and now they see eachother regularly. He doesn't talk much at all about her and refuse to answer any questions about them, but the only time he's not talking to me he's either working or hanging out with her. My friend is the nicest guy I have ever spoken to. And we make eachother laugh all the time. He says I pop up in his dreams, that he thinks about me a lot, that he likes me and cares about me, that I'm important to him and so on and I told him I like him too... In fact I constantly struggle to accept that I will always be this guy's friend. It's a very disturbing thought because the connection we have is really really nice. It seems to have got deeper with time. He says that he's not as nice as I make him sound and that he's just one my many admirers and that he wishes to remain friends. But why tell me that he likes me and thinks about me so often? I don't get it, I seem to take up a lot of space in his head, yet he insists on wanting to be my friend. I've decided to take my first break away from him since I first got to know him.. cos I hate being single in the first place and he's just reminding me of everything I don't have, of what could be. Edited November 26, 2011 by Similar Link to post Share on other sites
patience82 Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 maybe he does really like you .. but since you said he is older.. i guess he's looking for a more stable relationship... and if maybe you were closer to his age then he might be with you.. and if he doesnt want to answer your questions regarding his love life.. i guess its because he wants to spend that time talking about you and him only ... if he talks less now a days maybe hes being intimate (gettin close) with the woman hes dating Link to post Share on other sites
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